Ok, please tell me if I'm being a total brat. But..DH has been rubbing me the wrong way this week. I feel like our house is a total disaster. All I need is a little help getting things cleaned and organized. But, DH feels that he would rather use his extra time to play around on the computer and watch TV. Today was the last straw for me and i snapped...I hate to say it but I did. First off,I have not been feeling well the past 3 days and have barely got an sleep. Secondly, I am confined to a desk with a headset on, listening to people b!tch and moan about their health insurance. Today was NOT a good day at work. DH was home before I was...there was a sink full of dishes, babys bottles needed washed and 2 baskets of laundry on the living room floor. And he's watching Youtube videos online. I was soooo ticked. He's usually not like this but I have no idea what his deal is this week. I'm exhausted and sick of asking for his help. And to top it off, he now magically doesn't feel well himself. He decided to go to bed 40 minutes ago....
I just exploded...and I wished I wouldn't have...I don't want my LO to have to deal with this as he gets older. I'm frustrated and need a glass of wine...
Re: Am I being unreasonable?--DH Vent!
My DH actually does this to me (I suck at doing dishes - but am great with everything else). I learn real quick how big that pile gets when I'm the mess maker . . . he'll learn, too. So I definitely second this advice!
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No. Not unreasonable. I totally get it.
Go have that wine.. I hope it is a good bottle.
I am currently doing this. Started Sunday. SO couldn't find a clean work shirt this morning
I get this. I get it because I am the same way. I find myslef getting irritated because there are things that need to be done and we both arent great at doing them --or they would be done.
DH does do a lot and so do I. There are just a few things that our "joint chores" that we both overlook or hate doing. Mostly kitchen clean up.
I have started asking and it is working. I also sometimes lay out "the plans" and he helps out. "I need to pump and then clean up the dishes..." He usually offers to do the dishes after that.
And on the weekends I just say that when Audrey takes her nap we are having a power cleaning session. We see how much we can get done during her nap. Which usually includes a quickie afterwards... Men can be trained and cleaning can be funish
BFP #1- 11/7/10 ~EDD 7/20/11 ~M/C (bo) 12/6/10 @ 8wks ~Missing my Little Firework
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BFP #3- 02/21/12 ~EDD 11/1/12 Audrey Lee Born 11/4/2012
BFP #4 ~EDD 6/20/14 stick baby stick!
haha. Thank Ladies. AF is about to rear her ugly head...could be the reason for the bitchinesssss.