I was at a house warming this weekend and I was 31 weeks pregnant. Everyone asked me how much weight I have gained so far. I have only gained 11lbs so I told them, but jeez that made me uncomfortable. Then different ladies proceeded to tell me how that was not enough weight and I should be gaining more. My response was I am measuring exactly where I should be (slowly backed out of the room). I have never asked someone how much weight they have gained, let alone a pregnant woman.