February 2013 Moms

Wish I could freeze time

This probably sounds crazy but my c-sec is scheduled for next Monday and I just do not feel ready!  Mostly I am so worried about my three year old.  I know he will love her and all but I feel so badly that both of our lives will change so much.  :-(.  Anyway, I'm sure I'm just a hormonal mess.  
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Re: Wish I could freeze time

  • I know how you feel! Everyone keeps making comments about how I want to have the baby right away.... And I definitely don't.  I want a little bit more  time with just DD.  I know she will be excited, but this will be so hard for her!

  • It will change for the better for both of you I promise. You won't even be able to imagine life without her as part of your family. What you are feeling is normal but it will be great!
    Jen
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  • I was nervous too, and I know that there will likely be some rough patches ahead, but if it helps any DD is in love with DS.  I had him on Thursday, and after meeting him, she was smitten.  She always wants to hold him and help, even if he is screaming and crying.
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  • Thanks all for understanding- I'm happy he will have a sibling but I just hope our relationship doesn't change.  Just love him so much.  :-(
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  • It should be just fine.  Just remember to have a little you and him time whenever you can so he can feel your love individually.  Think of it as taking your relationship with your DS to a new level.  I don't think it matters how old they are, my ten year old has expressed concerns but I have made sure that her amount of love hasn't changed.  I just tell her we are adding a new adventure to our lives and I am going to need her help.  It also worked when her older sister was two and she was born.  As long as they get their one on one and they feel needed, life doesn't change, it just becomes different.
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  • I'm a FTM and I wish I could freeze time to have some more time just H and I. I've been sick off and on the past month so instead of enjoying the last moments we have together, I've been a grumpy, sick, hormonal person.   

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