I need a hug :-(

Naz91804

I'm having a yucky day today and just need a hug and a little bit of nestie dust. 

DH has another trial date this week which although is very routine and nothing will probably happen except getting a continuance, it just makes me think about this whole messy ordeal and feel sick to my stomach.  I start resenting him for putting me through this stress during my pregnancy.  This is so not how I pictured my pregnancy would be going and even though I'm still thankful for what I have and am trying to stay positive sometimes I just feel like I can't handle anymore.  That of course makes me more aggitated because I think about how I may be hurting the baby by stressing so much and the vicious cycle continues.

 To add to everything, I just found out today that my sister may be in some legal trouble too.  She got into a bar fight last year and was supposed to do community service as part of her probation which she has missed.  Now she has to go in front of a judge again and there's a possibility she'll end up in jail instead of just doing the community service.  My mom want me try and help her but of course she doesn't know what is going on with DH so she has no idea what kind of stress I'm already under. 

I feel so overwhelmed, like the weight of the world is on my shoulder.  I've been trying to stay strong and take things one day at a time but today is just a bad day.  The only thing that's keeping me going right now is the thought of seeing my baby on the u/s tomorrow and making sure everything is fine with her.  I could use all the nestie dust and hugs you can spare.  TIA!

Dragonfly_Bride

I'm sending you lots of hugs. I'm sorry for all the stress that's being thrust on you so far outside of your control. ?

we-love-to-try

I'm sorry... plenty of hugs being sent your way. I say tell your mom that you're not able to help your sister right now because you're too tired (um, works when you're pregnant) and stress makes it worse. Give your DH a big hug and then take a bath (or do something alone and promise to distract your brain with happy thoughts) Big hugs to you, we're here for you!

danandkelly

big hugs to you!

edsbaby

Hugs

titantsmama

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HUGS and *dust*

Mrs_Shmoopie

I'm so sorry you've got all this stress right now.  You know, you don't always have to be strong.  It's okay to check out for awhile and have a mini-breakdown.  Or even just refuse to participate in the world for a day and just stay in bed watching bad TV and eating junk.  And definitely vent whenever you need to here on your favorite message board.     {{{{HUGE HUGS}}}}

I<3MYHUSBAND

Im sorry. Big hugs to you. Take a deep breath, your going to make it through all this.. your a strong cookie. Just focus on your health and the baby, that is most important. I agree take some time for you.

My.ABC.Life

Aw Nazy.  BIG hug to you!!!

Mrs.BoomBoom

Hugs

Sorry you can't tell your family about what's going on.

Elizabeth1017

HUGE (((hugs)))  I'm sending tons of dust your way!

SweetieP

Hugs.  You are going through so much right now!

 

chillycoo

Oh sweetie! BIG HUG HUGS and buckets of dust to you! I am so sorry that you are carrying so much burden over your shoulders! I hope the weight will be lifted very soon for you!

Venessa

BIG, BIG HUGS!!

Meg_Meg

((hugs))

emeraldwednesda

Sending lots of hugs Nazy!  I hope you have a wonderful time at the u/s.

Cachis

I don't have much to say but wanted to say to stop and rest.  Not only your body but your mind, as well.

Naz91804

Mrs_Shmoopie:

I'm so sorry you've got all this stress right now.  You know, you don't always have to be strong.  It's okay to check out for awhile and have a mini-breakdown.  Or even just refuse to participate in the world for a day and just stay in bed watching bad TV and eating junk.  And definitely vent whenever you need to here on your favorite message board.     {{{{HUGE HUGS}}}}

 Thank you, that's good advice to remember.  Sometimes a good cry is a big help.

Naz91804

Thank you ladies, you are all so amazing, but you know this :-).  I feel better already just being reminded of what a wonderful support system I have here.  I really truely appreciate each and everyone of you.  xoxo

love22

Big hugs! 

ZoeMay06

Hugs Nazy...I'm so sorry you're having to go through this. I agree with we-love...maybe tell your mom you just can't help your sister right now because you're trying to keep your stress level to a minimum for the sake of your growin' baby. I hope you have a great time at your u/s tomorrow. I'm sure you'll feel much happier after that.

Lexi & Orion's Mommy

Big Hugs!