I've been lurking on these boards for awhile but never really felt like I belonged anywhere after our second trimester loss. I'm 40, trying for our first, and did one IVF which was successful but which ended at a loss at 20 weeks. We tried three more IVFs post-loss - one was cancelled because I didn't respond to the stims, one never got off the ground because my FSH was slightly elevated and the third never took off because my bod decided it was too good for ovulation. Now my FSH is sky high (after being only 8 only one year ago) so it's on to DE.
We have been searching for a donor since November and - fingers crossed - I think we just found her. From what I understand, my clinic is pretty slow so we're not looking at a transfer until April-ish but I'm looking forward to getting to know everyone here and getting as much information as I can.