I have two bosses. One who is a lifelong bachelor who will admit to not liking kids, but has been very nice and supportive this whole pregnancy. The other has two grown kids but will refer to them as his "leeches" and has always said pretty rude/sexist/racist stuff. For example, when I first told him I was pregnant his response was, "Did you plan this? This is really going to screw things up." Or last week's comment, "Anyone who thinks a woman should be in charge of anything has obviously forgotten high scool."
This morning my legs have been tired and I'm just feeling exhausted. So I was setting a box of paper up under my desk to elevate my feet when he walked by. "Why do you need that? If anyone needs to relax, it's me. I'm the one with the bad knee." The thing is, the man is always complaining about something and to everyone (students, faculty, anyone who will listen) and while he is having surgery on it in a couple of weeks before LO arrives, I honestly wanted to throw my stapler at him.
Re: Oh no he didn't....
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I'd be talking to HR. Those comments are so out of line.
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I would just go to HR. He needs to know it's not ok to talk like that.
Clomid- No response
Metformin 1500 mg Femara 5mg + Trigger + TI Round 2 = BFP!
Beta 13DPO: 115, Beta 16dpo: 561 BFP Chart
I had one of my "bosses" tell me "Wow- you really filled out" and he wasn't looking at my belly....
I had NO idea what to do with that one so I just walked away
This. He's an adult, it's time to grow up!