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UGH BM

&babymakes5&babymakes5
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Last night I had gotten the baby in bed and older kids were doing things such as homework...I proceeded to read some for the homework I had, H's phone rings and it is BM....he didn't answer, I said she will probably just call me, he said she wouldn't cue the phone ringing.  H had a horrible headache and his neck was hurting last night so I told her he was sleeping.  She proceeds to inform me that she called to *** at him because he didn't call SD on he Bday yesterday.  HMM find that hard to believe.  I listen to her gripe and get off the phone.  H was annoyed he pulls up his call log on the phone and he called SD 4 times yesterday and never was answered.  Please don't call me to *** because I don't like you anyway and H is a very good father and would never not call his daughter on her Bday. 
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  • J&A2008J&A2008 member

    Is there anything in the CO about phone access?

    I'd be tempted to give her an earful back for not having SD return his calls.

    Did he call BM's phone or SD's?

    Stay at home mom to a house of boys: two amazing stepsons, 12 and 9, and our 4 year old.
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  • &babymakes5&babymakes5
    She is 16 and he called her phone once early in the morning before she goes to school....twice after 4:30 when she gets home from school and once again about 7:30.  He also call BM's phone once at 7:30 when he couldn't get a hold of SD.  I saw the call log so she can Kiss my hiney. 
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  • J&A2008J&A2008 member
    Then he should have turned it right back at her and asked why she didn't have SD return the call.  She sounds pleasant.  Stick out tongue
    Stay at home mom to a house of boys: two amazing stepsons, 12 and 9, and our 4 year old.
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  • twister22twister22 member
    I would have DH text her today saying "I called DD's phone 4 times and your phone once yesterday to wish her a 'Happy Birthday.' Is there a reason my calls were not returned?"
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  • CFjo2010CFjo2010 member
    I wouldn't even deal with BM.  Just have your DH call/text SD and say, "I tried calling you a few times on your birthday.  Sorry we missed each other and I hope you had a great day."
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  • Karma1969Karma1969 member
    At 16 he should be dealing directly with the child.  It seems like he should have fielded that call and not you.
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  • Mama2TwoBoysMama2TwoBoys

    imagejobalchak:
    I wouldn't even deal with BM.  Just have your DH call/text SD and say, "I tried calling you a few times on your birthday.  Sorry we missed each other and I hope you had a great day."

    Yup, just avoid the BM drama. It's about SD & her birthday, not about his yatch of an ex-wife. 

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