Leaving the board

Boots0985

Sorry ladies who have been nice and helpful... But this board seems to be where the rude and mean women who have nothing better to do than belittle others for not being educated like to hang out. And when I say hang out, I mean they are always here prowling and waiting for someone to post something that gives them any reason to attack. I do not need the stress of getting b!tched at every time I have an issue. So I have found alot more groups where people are friendly and helpful and don't grab at any chance to make themselves feel better by snapping at someone for an innocent comment. Thanks for making this forum more stressful than helpful.

Ktbug613

FYI you could have just left without the big announcement. 

WashingtonQueen

There was no reason for this post except to be an AW. Don't let the door hit you on the way out!

Boots0985

Yeah your right, it's pointless to make a post about it. Because the only ones who will comment are the ones I'm talking about!

MommyAmes2

I highly doubt anyone would have noticed you were gone. So really this post was uncalled for, only meant to stir up crap.

Enjoy your other board.

WashingtonQueen

Boots0985:

Yeah your right, it's pointless to make a post about it. Because the only ones who will comment are the ones I'm talking about!

You obviously like the dramaz.

Enjeneer

I get it and have definitely considered doing the same thing before. Good luck with the rest of your pregnancy!

Boots0985

Nope. Just saying what alot of us have said on other forums about this one. Sorry but you obviously like drama or you wouldn't have commented

LaurelinLove

I have noticed it has become cattier in the past weeks. Hope you find a nice board!

ScarletOflaherty

*Hairflip* Hmmpppffff.

WashingtonQueen

Boots0985:

Nope. Just saying what alot of us have said on other forums about this one. Sorry but you obviously like drama or you wouldn't have commented

You started this whole thread you moron. FFS, bye.

lialakacz

sorry to see you go.  

aessary03

Good riddance then?

Boots0985

Thanks ladies. Hope to see y'all there. And you are definitely proving a point. Name calling? Get a life.

lialakacz

what other boards are you a part of? this is the only one I'm on, haven't really ventured out

BlueJewelM

Boots0985:

Thanks ladies. Hope to see y'all there. And you are definitely proving a point. Name calling? Get a life.

OMG stop!

Lol. You said you were leaving. Show some follow through! Now you just look silly because you said goodbye but still not leaving.

WashingtonQueen

Boots0985:

Thanks ladies. Hope to see y'all there. And you are definitely proving a point. Name calling? Get a life.

Yet, you're still here being a drama queen.

aessary03

Boots0985:

Thanks ladies. Hope to see y'all there. And you are definitely proving a point. Name calling? Get a life.

Why are you still here and posting if you're that unhappy with this board? I don't get it. You're keeping the drama stirred up.

CaliforniaDream87

Oh, just leave already....

gscoville

MommyAmes2:

I highly doubt anyone would have noticed you were gone. So really this post was uncalled for, only meant to stir up crap.

Enjoy your other board.

This.  Bluntly honest does not equal mean.  Around here we just tell it like it is rather than blow glitter and fairy farts up peoples' arses. It's not for everyone.  And in all sincerity, those who are looking for all puppydogs and rainbows generally have no intention of sticking around and being part of a knowledgeable group of people who all contribute to the community like this is.  So go, be free amongst the baby dust and unicorns on the other groups, I guarantee you won't get nearly as honest, straight forward, and medically sound answers as most of us are really looking for - but if you're just looking for false cheer and sickly sweet ickiness, all the power to you!

aessary03

CaliforniaDream87:

Oh, just leave already....

Lmao two thumbs up!

WashingtonQueen

gscoville:

MommyAmes2:

I highly doubt anyone would have noticed you were gone. So really this post was uncalled for, only meant to stir up crap.

Enjoy your other board.

This.  Bluntly honest does not equal mean.  Around here we just tell it like it is rather than blow glitter and fairy farts up peoples' arses. It's not for everyone.  And in all sincerity, those who are looking for all puppydogs and rainbows generally have no intention of sticking around and being part of a knowledgeable group of people who all contribute to the community like this is.  So go, be free amongst the baby dust and unicorns on the other groups, I guarantee you won't get nearly as honest, straight forward, and medically sound answers as most of us are really looking for - but if you're just looking for false cheer and sickly sweet ickiness, all the power to you!

 Gscoville is the shiznit!

kateisgreat

gscoville:

MommyAmes2:

I highly doubt anyone would have noticed you were gone. So really this post was uncalled for, only meant to stir up crap.

Enjoy your other board.

This.  Bluntly honest does not equal mean.  Around here we just tell it like it is rather than blow glitter and fairy farts up peoples' arses. It's not for everyone.  And in all sincerity, those who are looking for all puppydogs and rainbows generally have no intention of sticking around and being part of a knowledgeable group of people who all contribute to the community like this is.  So go, be free amongst the baby dust and unicorns on the other groups, I guarantee you won't get nearly as honest, straight forward, and medically sound answers as most of us are really looking for - but if you're just looking for false cheer and sickly sweet ickiness, all the power to you!

If I could use smiley's on my browser, you would be getting a big thumbs up.  I don't understand why people get butthurt over straightforwardness. 

Soleil3

Who is this person?

And I'll be sure to let y'all know if I leave. I know you care

deslet

I understand. They call it snark, but it is just plain rudeness. The internet makes it easier for people's meaner sides to come out. Everyone complains about repeated posts/topics, but if they have a problem with it, why do they read them? 

I haven't been the target of rudeness yet, (though we'll see if this post changes that) but it does upset me to see women treating other women harshly. It is internet bullying, and you can tell it is bullying because instead of apologizing for hurting another human being's feelings, they just up their antagonism and even do a little victim blaming, as evidenced by the "Oh, boo hoo, you can't handle my rudeness," type comments. It can get rather stereotypical middle school-esque.

I also understand your desire to make your departure known...what victim of bullying doesn't want to call out or stand up to their bully? And it is important, I think, for people here to be reminded that words do hurt. One can be honest without being hurtful. It isn't as fun/satisfying as "snark," but it is possible. Life isn't puppies and rainbows, but one doesn't have to make it dogsh*t and leprechaun p*ss either. 

Anyhow, I'm interested in what this friendlier board is. I mostly lurk here because I like reading about other people's experiences and it is a very informative place, but I'm not interested in becoming the victim of women who think being rude should be socially acceptable because they have been members of a website for a long time, while their victims are newbies (fresh meat really). 

CaliforniaDream87

deslet:

I understand. They call it snark, but it is just plain rudeness. The internet makes it easier for people's meaner sides to come out. Everyone complains about repeated posts/topics, but if they have a problem with it, why do they read them?nbsp;I haven't been the target of rudeness yet, though we'll see if this post changes that but it does upset me to see women treating other women harshly. It is internet bullying, and you can tell it is bullying because instead of apologizing for hurting another human being's feelings, they just up their antagonism and even do a little victim blaming, as evidenced by the "Oh, boo hoo, you can't handle my rudeness," type comments. It can get rather stereotypical middle schoolesque.I also understand your desire to make your departure known...what victim of bullying doesn't want to call out or stand up to their bully? And it is important, I think, for people here to be reminded that words do hurt. One can be honest without being hurtful. It isn't as fun/satisfying as "snark," but it is possible. Life isn't puppies and rainbows, but one doesn't have to make it dogsht and leprechaun pss either.nbsp;Anyhow, I'm interested in what this friendlier board is. I mostly lurk here because I like reading about other people's experiences and it is a very informative place, but I'm not interested in becoming the victim of women who think being rude should be socially acceptable because they have been members of a website for a long time, while their victims are newbies fresh meat really.nbsp;

ROLLS EYES

Why are you here then? I mean, if we are "so mean" why do you come here?

It's quite easy. If you don't like the way the board works, leave!

ottid123

CaliforniaDream87:

deslet:

I understand. They call it snark, but it is just plain rudeness. The internet makes it easier for people's meaner sides to come out. Everyone complains about repeated posts/topics, but if they have a problem with it, why do they read them?nbsp;I haven't been the target of rudeness yet, though we'll see if this post changes that but it does upset me to see women treating other women harshly. It is internet bullying, and you can tell it is bullying because instead of apologizing for hurting another human being's feelings, they just up their antagonism and even do a little victim blaming, as evidenced by the "Oh, boo hoo, you can't handle my rudeness," type comments. It can get rather stereotypical middle schoolesque.I also understand your desire to make your departure known...what victim of bullying doesn't want to call out or stand up to their bully? And it is important, I think, for people here to be reminded that words do hurt. One can be honest without being hurtful. It isn't as fun/satisfying as "snark," but it is possible. Life isn't puppies and rainbows, but one doesn't have to make it dogsht and leprechaun pss either.nbsp;Anyhow, I'm interested in what this friendlier board is. I mostly lurk here because I like reading about other people's experiences and it is a very informative place, but I'm not interested in becoming the victim of women who think being rude should be socially acceptable because they have been members of a website for a long time, while their victims are newbies fresh meat really.nbsp;

ROLLS EYES Why are you here then? I mean, if we are "so mean" why do you come here? It's quite easy. If you don't like the way the board works, leave!

 

She said why she's here.  She wants to read about others experiences, which is the point of the board, no?  To share experiences and advice with people in the same place as you?  But she is absolutely right about the feeling of many of these threads.

Ahtnamas6789

deslet:

I understand. They call it snark, but it is just plain rudeness. The internet makes it easier for people's meaner sides to come out. Everyone complains about repeated posts/topics, but if they have a problem with it, why do they read them? 

I haven't been the target of rudeness yet, (though we'll see if this post changes that) but it does upset me to see women treating other women harshly. It is internet bullying, and you can tell it is bullying because instead of apologizing for hurting another human being's feelings, they just up their antagonism and even do a little victim blaming, as evidenced by the "Oh, boo hoo, you can't handle my rudeness," type comments. It can get rather stereotypical middle school-esque.

I also understand your desire to make your departure known...what victim of bullying doesn't want to call out or stand up to their bully? And it is important, I think, for people here to be reminded that words do hurt. One can be honest without being hurtful. It isn't as fun/satisfying as "snark," but it is possible. Life isn't puppies and rainbows, but one doesn't have to make it dogsh*t and leprechaun p*ss either. 

Anyhow, I'm interested in what this friendlier board is. I mostly lurk here because I like reading about other people's experiences and it is a very informative place, but I'm not interested in becoming the victim of women who think being rude should be socially acceptable because they have been members of a website for a long time, while their victims are newbies (fresh meat really). 

 

Couldn't have said it any better! I really like the baby center website & apps! You should check it out and can look me up on that one if you want   Again, Thanks for taking the words right out of my mouth!

I dont know why I even decided to look at this board again I swore I wouldn't lol but like you said I like to hear other's experiences and we shouldn't let a few ruin it for everyone. I have come acorss some pretty normal, very kind people on here..but it just doesnt seem worth it. I feel like we are in a virtual mean girls world hehe. hope to see you on baby center !

anvloveskme

GBCB...vom

I have been around these parts for more than a hot minute and nothing that has gone down on this board is even close to what happens on some of the other boards.  I think for the most part the BMBs are known for being more mellow than the other boards. 

Peace out, yo!

MommyAmes2

deslet:

I understand. They call it snark, but it is just plain rudeness. The internet makes it easier for people's meaner sides to come out. Everyone complains about repeated posts/topics, but if they have a problem with it, why do they read them? 

I haven't been the target of rudeness yet, (though we'll see if this post changes that) but it does upset me to see women treating other women harshly. It is internet bullying, and you can tell it is bullying because instead of apologizing for hurting another human being's feelings, they just up their antagonism and even do a little victim blaming, as evidenced by the "Oh, boo hoo, you can't handle my rudeness," type comments. It can get rather stereotypical middle school-esque.

I also understand your desire to make your departure known...what victim of bullying doesn't want to call out or stand up to their bully? And it is important, I think, for people here to be reminded that words do hurt. One can be honest without being hurtful. It isn't as fun/satisfying as "snark," but it is possible. Life isn't puppies and rainbows, but one doesn't have to make it dogsh*t and leprechaun p*ss either. 

Anyhow, I'm interested in what this friendlier board is. I mostly lurk here because I like reading about other people's experiences and it is a very informative place, but I'm not interested in becoming the victim of women who think being rude should be socially acceptable because they have been members of a website for a long time, while their victims are newbies (fresh meat really). 

I never once got "bullied" when I was a "newbie." If you post/say something ignorant, you will get called out for being ignorant. People get upset way to easily by people they don't even know IRL. Its a message board people!

As for "nicer" boards. Here are a few for you ladies who enjoy the rainbows and puppies. Babygaga, babycenter, cafemom. They might be more to your liking.

LnR70707

Boots0985:

So I have found alot more groups where people are friendly and helpful and don't grab at any chance to make themselves feel better by snapping at someone for an innocent comment. Thanks for making this forum more stressful than helpful.

amarissa85

anvloveskme:

GBCB...vom

I have been around these parts for more than a hot minute and nothing that has gone down on this board is even close to what happens on some of the other boards.  I think for the most part the BMBs are known for being more mellow than the other boards. 

Peace out, yo!

This. You really should look at some of the other boards. Blunt and bully are two different things. 

lynn97

deslet:

I understand. They call it snark, but it is just plain rudeness. The internet makes it easier for people's meaner sides to come out. Everyone complains about repeated posts/topics, but if they have a problem with it, why do they read them?nbsp;I haven't been the target of rudeness yet, though we'll see if this post changes that but it does upset me to see women treating other women harshly. It is internet bullying, and you can tell it is bullying because instead of apologizing for hurting another human being's feelings, they just up their antagonism and even do a little victim blaming, as evidenced by the "Oh, boo hoo, you can't handle my rudeness," type comments. It can get rather stereotypical middle schoolesque.I also understand your desire to make your departure known...what victim of bullying doesn't want to call out or stand up to their bully? And it is important, I think, for people here to be reminded that words do hurt. One can be honest without being hurtful. It isn't as fun/satisfying as "snark," but it is possible. Life isn't puppies and rainbows, but one doesn't have to make it dogsht and leprechaun pss either.nbsp;Anyhow, I'm interested in what this friendlier board is. I mostly lurk here because I like reading about other people's experiences and it is a very informative place, but I'm not interested in becoming the victim of women who think being rude should be socially acceptable because they have been members of a website for a long time, while their victims are newbies fresh meat really.nbsp;

Agreed. I have been on TB for 2.5 years and there is a lot of meanness on this board that is uncalled for IMO. Whatever. There are also a lot of redundant posts and general stupidity, too. Anyway, it is what it is so you can take it or leave it.

CaliforniaDream87

ottid123:

CaliforniaDream87:

deslet:

I understand. They call it snark, but it is just plain rudeness. The internet makes it easier for people's meaner sides to come out. Everyone complains about repeated posts/topics, but if they have a problem with it, why do they read them?nbsp;I haven't been the target of rudeness yet, though we'll see if this post changes that but it does upset me to see women treating other women harshly. It is internet bullying, and you can tell it is bullying because instead of apologizing for hurting another human being's feelings, they just up their antagonism and even do a little victim blaming, as evidenced by the "Oh, boo hoo, you can't handle my rudeness," type comments. It can get rather stereotypical middle schoolesque.I also understand your desire to make your departure known...what victim of bullying doesn't want to call out or stand up to their bully? And it is important, I think, for people here to be reminded that words do hurt. One can be honest without being hurtful. It isn't as fun/satisfying as "snark," but it is possible. Life isn't puppies and rainbows, but one doesn't have to make it dogsht and leprechaun pss either.nbsp;Anyhow, I'm interested in what this friendlier board is. I mostly lurk here because I like reading about other people's experiences and it is a very informative place, but I'm not interested in becoming the victim of women who think being rude should be socially acceptable because they have been members of a website for a long time, while their victims are newbies fresh meat really.nbsp;

ROLLS EYES

Why are you here then? I mean, if we are "so mean" why do you come here?

It's quite easy. If you don't like the way the board works, leave!

 

She said why she's here.  She wants to read about others experiences, which is the point of the board, no?  To share experiences and advice with people in the same place as you?  But she is absolutely right about the feeling of many of these threads.

She can feel however she chooses. This is the Internet and people will respond how they choose. You cannot change this nor can the OP.

If you don't like it....bye!

TristansMom01

Missed it again! Damn! Have fun at Baby Gaga

kateisgreat

deslet:

I understand. They call it snark, but it is just plain rudeness. The internet makes it easier for people's meaner sides to come out. Everyone complains about repeated posts/topics, but if they have a problem with it, why do they read them? 

I haven't been the target of rudeness yet, (though we'll see if this post changes that) but it does upset me to see women treating other women harshly. It is internet bullying, and you can tell it is bullying because instead of apologizing for hurting another human being's feelings, they just up their antagonism and even do a little victim blaming, as evidenced by the "Oh, boo hoo, you can't handle my rudeness," type comments. It can get rather stereotypical middle school-esque.

I also understand your desire to make your departure known...what victim of bullying doesn't want to call out or stand up to their bully? And it is important, I think, for people here to be reminded that words do hurt. One can be honest without being hurtful. It isn't as fun/satisfying as "snark," but it is possible. Life isn't puppies and rainbows, but one doesn't have to make it dogsh*t and leprechaun p*ss either. 

Anyhow, I'm interested in what this friendlier board is. I mostly lurk here because I like reading about other people's experiences and it is a very informative place, but I'm not interested in becoming the victim of women who think being rude should be socially acceptable because they have been members of a website for a long time, while their victims are newbies (fresh meat really). 

Sometimes people take offense where none was intended. Not using alot of smileys and sugar coating everything doesn't always equal rudeness, it's just hard to read someone's "tone of voice".  I know I don't go out of my way to be rude or say mean things, but I have still been accused of being "nasty" and have had girls say rude things about me because of it. The bottom line is- this is a public message board full of strangers, don't take anything you read to heart. There may be friendlier boards out there, but aren't nearly as entertaining. 

TurtleMomma

Get over yourself and GET THE F*CK OUT. Attention whore.

amandarins

FYI this is the most polite board I've been on. Good luck in the real world.

LilMissScareAll

L&R70707:

Boots0985:

So I have found alot more groups where people are friendly and helpful and don't grab at any chance to make themselves feel better by snapping at someone for an innocent comment. Thanks for making this forum more stressful than helpful.

 

I love Hyperbole & a Half. It makes me sad it's no longer updated 

gnomely

PSA on friendly! boards: Mothering, Baby Gaga, Babycenter, What to Expect

Otherwise, everyone! It's our first GBCB. Cupcakes all around!

Charmed181

Ooh GBCB!!  Cool. I knew today was a good day to be here... I love cupcakes!