Who wants to party?

Jillibean85

Pants Party has been postponed, this one's a Pity Party. So if you don't have misery to share in my company (or at least a kind word for those of us who think life sucks today) then your kind isn't welcome here. 

DH left yesterday for a deployment and won't be back til May.

Silver lining - it could be worse.

Reality - I'm really f*cking sad and I hate having to distract my DD every time she asks where Daddy is. I'm never a Debbie Downer, so please just let me have my moment.

Anyone else who has something shitty to share (that's sh*tty in case it got bleeped out), big or small, come party with me!

::Throws my hands in the air::  

old_time_girl

DH shattered the rear window of my van. Over 500 bucks for a new one.
There goes what little nest egg i had saved up.
My shitty day is nothing compared to yours.

Jillibean85

No one else has bad news??! NOTHING!? 

More wine for me, I guess.. 

nanabanana06

Man, that sucks. I live in a huge military town. I see tons of mothers dealing with this all the time. I feel for them. I hope the next few months fly by for you.

My pity party is the fact that DS cluster feeds the same time every night. From about 8pm till 10 or 11. My tits hurt.

Jillibean85

old_time_girl:

DH shattered the rear window of my van. Over 500 bucks for a new one. There goes what little nest egg i had saved up. My shitty day is nothing compared to yours.

Oh, Thank God!

No, no... This isn't a competition. That is a bummer, stuff like that aaalways happens at the crappiest time. On a bright note, at least you had it saved!  

Jillibean85

Nana_Osaki06:

Man, that sucks. I live in a huge military town. I see tons of mothers dealing with this all the time. I feel for them. I hope the next few months fly by for you. My pity party is the fact that DS cluster feeds the same time every night. From about 8pm till 10 or 11. My tits hurt.

Thanks, love!

Awww, man! ( Thoughts and prayers to your tits. Maybe some nipple cream and an ice pack?? 

old_time_girl

Nana_Osaki06:

Man, that sucks. I live in a huge military town. I see tons of mothers dealing with this all the time. I feel for them. I hope the next few months fly by for you.

My pity party is the fact that DS cluster feeds the same time every night. From about 8pm till 10 or 11. My tits hurt.

I went through lanolin like crazy with DS. I joked, because we live on a farm, that i was just going to buy my own sheep for the lanolin. Just go and rub my tits on it.
DH looked at me weird...

nanabanana06

Jillibean85:

Nana_Osaki06:

Man, that sucks. I live in a huge military town. I see tons of mothers dealing with this all the time. I feel for them. I hope the next few months fly by for you.

My pity party is the fact that DS cluster feeds the same time every night. From about 8pm till 10 or 11. My tits hurt.

Thanks, love!

Awww, man! ( Thoughts and prayers to your tits. Maybe some nipple cream and an ice pack?? 

I just hate feeling like they are sucked dry by a super powered vaccum. They hurt on the inside, not my nips.

Manateearmz

Sorry that your DH is away.

Mine is sick with a stomach bug.  

Jillibean85

Nana_Osaki06:

Jillibean85:

Nana_Osaki06:

Man, that sucks. I live in a huge military town. I see tons of mothers dealing with this all the time. I feel for them. I hope the next few months fly by for you. My pity party is the fact that DS cluster feeds the same time every night. From about 8pm till 10 or 11. My tits hurt.

Thanks, love!

Awww, man! ( Thoughts and prayers to your tits. Maybe some nipple cream and an ice pack?? 

I just hate feeling like they are sucked dry by a super powered vaccum. They hurt on the inside, not my nips.

I didn't bf... Just having swollen boobies hurt, so I honestly can't imagine! Hang in there, Momma bear! 

Jillibean85

Manateearmz:

Sorry that your DH is away.

Mine is sick with a stomach bug.  

That went through our house last month... Errbody in the house had it coming out all ends for a few days. Is it the 24 hour one? Seems like those buggers creep up around the holidays every year!  

Manateearmz

Jillibean85:

Manateearmz:

Sorry that your DH is away.

Mine is sick with a stomach bug.  

That went through our house last month... Errbody in the house had it coming out all ends for a few days. Is it the 24 hour one? Seems like those buggers creep up around the holidays every year!  

all of our friends and family have had it, seems to last at least 2 days.  

Hesterlicious

Group hugs for everyone.
I'm crying right now because my DH is a douche. He's practically a professional at making me feel unwanted

Jillibean85

Hesterlicious:

Group hugs for everyone. I'm crying right now because my DH is a douche. He's practically a professional at making me feel unwanted

Awww big ol' hug back to you.

FTR, if i lived close enough I would strongly consider bringing over a big thing of baby oil to give you a well-deserved boobie massage.

You and nana both.  

nanabanana06

Jillibean85:

Hesterlicious:

Group hugs for everyone.
I'm crying right now because my DH is a douche. He's practically a professional at making me feel unwanted

Awww big ol' hug back to you.

FTR, if i lived close enough I would strongly consider bringing over a big thing of baby oil to give you a well-deserved boobie massage. <3

You and nana both.  

My boobs may attack though. I think it's a lot of has though.

Jillibean85

Nana_Osaki06:

Jillibean85:

Hesterlicious:

Group hugs for everyone. I'm crying right now because my DH is a douche. He's practically a professional at making me feel unwanted

Awww big ol' hug back to you.

FTR, if i lived close enough I would strongly consider bringing over a big thing of baby oil to give you a well-deserved boobie massage.

You and nana both.  

My boobs may attack though. I think it's a lot of has though.

I'm not sure what you mean by your last sentence, but it's okay. I know tae bo.  

nanabanana06

Jillibean85:

Nana_Osaki06:

Jillibean85:

Hesterlicious:

Group hugs for everyone.
I'm crying right now because my DH is a douche. He's practically a professional at making me feel unwanted

Awww big ol' hug back to you.

FTR, if i lived close enough I would strongly consider bringing over a big thing of baby oil to give you a well-deserved boobie massage. <3

You and nana both.  

My boobs may attack though. I think it's a lot of has though.

I'm not sure what you mean by your last sentence, but it's okay. I know tae bo.  

Lol I meant that I think the baby is just gassy. Darn autocorrect.

SandiaPinaMama

Hesterlicious:

Group hugs for everyone.
I'm crying right now because my DH is a douche. He's practically a professional at making me feel unwanted

Are we married to the same man? Mine's making me want out. At least if I'm alone, sitting in my house all weekend alone is not such a bad thing. Sitting here alone knowing he prefers to be elsewhere blows. For clarity, no he isn't cheating, just too much time with the boys, and totally unaffectionate when we're together. So upset I can't sleep.

mammamia24

Jillibean85:

Pants Party has been postponed, this one's a Pity Party. So if you don't have misery to share in my company (or at least a kind word for those of us who think life sucks today) then your kind isn't welcome here. 

DH left yesterday for a deployment and won't be back til May.

Silver lining - it could be worse.

Reality - I'm really f*cking sad and I hate having to distract my DD every time she asks where Daddy is. I'm never a Debbie Downer, so please just let me have my moment.

Anyone else who has something shitty to share (that's sh*tty in case it got bleeped out), big or small, come party with me!

::Throws my hands in the air::  

That really sucks that your DH is gonna be gone that long. My pitty party is that my 4yo told me he hates me today because I wouldn't let him watch a movie for the thousandth time. sometimes being a parent sucks a$$.

MrsCodeMonkey

My boobs hurt too. I haven't BF since Friday morning. They were rock hard yesterday. The cold cabbage leaves helped. This morning they leaked and DD smelled them. It's sooo hard to say no, but I am ready to be done. I fell into a deep depression and I blame the hormones. Why can't anything be easy.

OP, I'm sorry to hear your DH had to leave again. I don't know how you do it. You are one strong mama.

Hesterlicious

watermelon mom:

Hesterlicious:

Group hugs for everyone.
I'm crying right now because my DH is a douche. He's practically a professional at making me feel unwanted

Are we married to the same man? Mine's making me want out. At least if I'm alone, sitting in my house all weekend alone is not such a bad thing. Sitting here alone knowing he prefers to be elsewhere blows. For clarity, no he isn't cheating, just too much time with the boys, and totally unaffectionate when we're together. So upset I can't sleep.

Aww that sucks too. At least mine is home beside me but it sucks too because he's right here and I still feel ditched. I'm up early because we fought about me talking to him before his third snooze went off. This was after he promised not to wake up hating me before he went to sleep last night.

Smootchy

I can't think of anything to add at the moment...

But I'll sit in your pitty party with ya. That sucks momma!

 

 

 

Smootchy

 

 

Smootchy

was hoping that cat would give you a chuckle.

wine under cubicle is me drinking with you...

Seriously though, gratitute to you and your husband. Millitary families have a very soft place in my heart. DH served 4 years before we were married (he was just my best friend) and it was hard for me. I couldn't imagine him actually being my husband and having a kid and trying to deal with that.  

KJmashup

More hugs to you all. I'm sorry.

I'm just blah. No feelings at all one way or the other. Numb. I don't know why. 

ASmallWonder

Hugs to all.   Mine are inconsequential but I'll play.  I've had a headache for a week.  I want to rip my head off.  Also, DH decided, while I was napping on the couch yesterday, to play cars with Aiden.  On me.  And ended up getting my hair wound around the wheels of a car and had to cut it out with scissors.  It didn't help the headache but I thought it might be good for all of you for a chuckle

AquaFlowers

(Hugs) sounds rough. 

Not much bad news here, besides Cole still in the NICU.