Sorry if this has been asked already, but I was wondering what your ladies' thoughts were on taking a breastfeeding class if you're a FTM. I've seen it suggested on other websites and books, but I'm curious if anyone here actually took a class and whether or not you thought it was helpful.
Re: Breastfeeding Class?
This is a good question, I am a FTM & am debating taking one next week. My hospital offers it at a fee in addition to a lactation support class every thursday once baby comes for free. My questions is did the other moms go to a class like this before of after baby was here?
My midwife strongly suggested I take a breastfeeding class. I have been going to La Leche League meetings and reading books, but I think a class will provide some additional info I can't get elsewhere. I'm pretty sure the hospital where I deliver offers them.
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This. I had 2 full-time LCs in my room for 2 straight days trying to get DS to latch.
I had both my nipples pierced, too, and took them out prior to being pregnant with DD. She nursed just fine and it didn't affect the breastfeeding experience at all. I didn't go to any classes prior to DD, I had a nurse in the hospital help me latch her on and that in itself was so helpful. I also read the book Breastfeeding for Dummies. I'm usually not a fan of the "Dummies" series, but it was very helpful.
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Here are my BF tips:
- Take the class if it is of minimal cost.
- Lurk on the BF board now, so you can get an idea about some of the experiences that mothers are having
- Find a lactation consultant prior to being in the hospital
- check out www.Kellysmom.com. It is the bible for breastfeeding
- Read a few books, "So that's what they are there for" is a good one
But yes, BF is something that is extremely practical. There is no way to prepare for it, except to go in with the expectation that it does not come natural and at first, you will not look like the pictures of the women they show in the glider.
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I've signed up for every available class!
But MH's insurance allows me take as many classes as I want with no cost. He works at the hospital and the classes are given at the hospital. I've signed up for childbirth classes (starts Wed), Happiest Baby on the Block seminar, child care seminar that includes first aid/CPR course, and a nursing class for BF. I'm a FTM as well and am always being told the horror stories of BF from others. I know that latching part is the hardest but the hospital will usually make sure baby gets a proper latch before you leave. I think that will help a lot.
If you decide not to take the class, make sure there are lactation consultants that you can contact. That way, if you are having any issues or any questions, there is a specialist to ask. I think the Le Leche organization can set you up with lactation consultants in your area.
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I was wondering about that. I figured MH probably wouldn't want to attend a nursing class so I didn't tell him so he could adjust his schedule for that class. He just told me the other day that he would like to come so he can better understand. It surprised me but I was also glad he wants to come. I just didn't know how awkward it might be for him
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