My DH and I have been staying "active" and I just try not to think about the fact that our baby is right there while we're having sex. I know, it's a natural thing to have sex while you're pregnant, but right now I just try not to think about it while we're doing it.
So my question is... when you felt movement, were you still having sex with your husband? Did you try and time it so the baby wasn't moving? Every time I think about the possibility of having sex while I can feel LO kicking and moving around it really weirds me out... Am I being completely irrational or is this a normal thing to be nervous about?
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We still did it after I started feeling movement (otherwise that would be a loooong time). It definitely is way more weird and can sometimes be distracting. Luckily, it's only weird for us since the guy doesn't know what's happening, so you just have to try and stay focused on the deed. I will say that at the end when the movement is way uncomfortable and painful, we didn't have much sex.
My sex drive went through the roof in 2nd and 3rd tri last time, especially 3rd. The baby has no idea what's going on. It's a little odd I guess, but we never let it bother us.
Your parents probably did it to you (Gross thought, I know!)
To be honest, I don't think I ever noticed lol. It didn't really bother me I suppose. Baby is protected way up in your uterus, so it's not really like the baby is hanging out in the vagina with you.
I think DH was a little weirded out about it, but it didn't bother me at all. By the time I hit my due date, we were having a lot of sexy time. I looked like a whale and it was pretty comical.
Same here.
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This for me too. DS never moved when DH and I had sex and DS was a really active baby.
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