Pregnant after a Loss

Leaving for now

I am sorry to say but I will be leaving board for now after spotting of and on since Tuesday I am sadly mc for the 2 nd time in a row. I am so sad about this. Really can't believe it, but baby was more developed than last time. Last time all we saw was yolk sac at least this time it measured about 7 weeks it was 1.3 cm . I am wishing this wasn't so but dr said we can try again as soon as we are ready. For me it helps when we can try again. Gives me something to look forward to. Getting pregnant is not our problem. 1 st mc we got pregnant same month. This time 2 nd time trying. So 3 has to be our lucky number. She also said if I mc a 3 rd time then that's when genetic testing would start. But I am hoping it doesn't come to that!! Has anyone gone through 2 mc in a row hearing your stories might help thanks! But I will be leaving after tonight. I hope to see y'all in a month or so! Good luck with your babies and treasure them and your pregnancy!!
TTC since June 2012 BFP #1 7/1/2012 EDD 3/4/2013 M/C on 7/18/2012 @ 7w4d baby #2 EDD 7/29/2012 M/C on 12/28/2012@ 9w4d Daisypath Anniversary tickers Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

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  • I am so sorry for your loss. My T's and P' are with you!!


    DS1 2-26-07
    DS2 10-18-10
    M/C 8-5-12
    DS3  6-21-13
    #4 Due May 2015

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  • Thank you !! I really appreciate it . Just trying to get through this.
    TTC since June 2012 BFP #1 7/1/2012 EDD 3/4/2013 M/C on 7/18/2012 @ 7w4d baby #2 EDD 7/29/2012 M/C on 12/28/2012@ 9w4d Daisypath Anniversary tickers Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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  • I am so sorry for your loss.
  • I'm so sorry.
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    BFP#1 - 11/13/11, Natural MC - 12/24/11 at 12 weeks
    BFP#2 - 10/2/12, Please be our rainbow.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss.
    BFP#1 11/25/11 EDD 08/09/12 MMC 01/30/12 D&C 02/01/12
    BFP#2 09/11/12 beta1=72 @13dpo beta2=160 @14dpo beta3=over 6000 @24dpo U/S @7w2dd hb=146bpm U/S @8w5d hb=159bpm U/S @12w hb=164bpm
    EDD 05/20/13
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  • Sorry honey. I recall my second mc very very well. My dr. Said how sorry she was and then told me her mother had six mc's before having four children. Didnt help me at the time. But I do believe it gave me a little inspiration not to give up. I would see if there are any blood panels your doc might test on. I hated having to lose three befote finding out what was wrong. Although like you said next time things might be perfect. You are lucky you guys get pregnant right away. All the luck in the world to you and your DH.

    bfp #1 10/15/2009 m/c 11/4/09 10 weeks Lily you are not forgotten
    bfp #2 4/5/2010 CP, m/c 4/12/10 5 weeks Baby Lo
    Diagnosed PCOS 10/10 RX 1500 mg Metformin/day
    bfp#3 4/5/2011 Missed m/c discovered 5/24/2011 (10w 5d) baby Asher stopped growing at 6 weeks
    I know he is playing with his siblings in heaven right now...

    rx'd factor II gene mutation 7/11 prescribed 5000 units Heparin daily
    rx'd Sjogren's Disease 8/11

    bfp #4 9-6-2012 RAINBOW Baby Ky born 5-9-13
    bfp #5 8-26-14  RAINBOW #2 Due 5-8-2015
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  • Oh, and I would be cautious of trying your very next cycle. Clarify that with your doc sometimes they want you to wait 2 or 3. Gl!

    bfp #1 10/15/2009 m/c 11/4/09 10 weeks Lily you are not forgotten
    bfp #2 4/5/2010 CP, m/c 4/12/10 5 weeks Baby Lo
    Diagnosed PCOS 10/10 RX 1500 mg Metformin/day
    bfp#3 4/5/2011 Missed m/c discovered 5/24/2011 (10w 5d) baby Asher stopped growing at 6 weeks
    I know he is playing with his siblings in heaven right now...

    rx'd factor II gene mutation 7/11 prescribed 5000 units Heparin daily
    rx'd Sjogren's Disease 8/11

    bfp #4 9-6-2012 RAINBOW Baby Ky born 5-9-13
    bfp #5 8-26-14  RAINBOW #2 Due 5-8-2015
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  • I am so sorry you're going through this. Yes, I have been through it as well. I had three in a row and then did the testing. We did find a problem. I actually wish that I had done the testing after the second one. We had talked about it but my doctor said that we could try again and we got pregnant right away so there was not time to do the testing. However, if I had to do it all over again, I'd have waited and done the testing. I know it's so hard to wait and the one thing bringing comfort is the desire to try again but saving yourself from a possible third miscarriage or at least arming yourself with the knowledge that there isn't anything wrong is worth it. It's a lengthy process but what gave me comfort was that they can pretty much deal with anything. Just something to think about as you are healing. Whatever you decide, I wish you luck and lots of hugs.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss ... I wish you the best, and hope you take good care of yourself. Best wishes.
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    We lost our first (EDD 07/23/12) after finding out at 12 weeks there was no longer a heartbeat. Our rainbow was born 05/22/13 and was worth all we went through.

    “So can you understand? Why I want a daughter while I’m still young? I wanna hold her hand and show her some beauty before all this damage is done. But if it’s too much to ask, it’s too much to ask … Then send me a son.” – Arcade Fire
  • I'm so sorry!!
    K & M married 10.8.2011 *** BFP 7.17.2012, EDD 3.21.2013, Miscarriage at 6 wks 3 days *** BFP #2 11.7.2012, beautiful Tess born 7.11.2013
  • I'm very sorry for your loss.

    BFP #2: 08/23/12; EDD: 05/04/13 ~Please stick little one!!! DS born 05/09/13 at 40w5d

    BFP #1: 05/05/12; EDD: 01/01/13; m/c: 05/21/12 ~Forever in our hearts~ 

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  • I am so sorry for your loss.  Huge (((HUGS)))

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss...
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    BFP 1 - March 26, 2012, MMC discovered May 21, 2012
    BFP 2 - October 30, 2012, Rainbow Baby Boy born July 14, 2013
    TTC no sooner than November 2014
  • I'm so sorry you have to go through this again. It's not right that anyone should ever have to experience this, yet alone twice in a row. My mom had 2 m/c back to back and went on to have my two younger siblings after that so I do believe that sometimes it is just really bad luck twice. Again, I'm sorry and I hope to see you back soon!

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    BFP #1 3.16.12. mmc 5.7.12 at 11 weeks ~Avery Cameron~

    BFP #2 12.12.12. mmc 1.22.13 at 10 weeks ~Theodore Michael~

    D&C #2 Chromosome analysis results: Translocation Trisomy 14

    My RPL Testing: Homozygous MTHFR, normal karyotype

    DH's karyotype results: Robertsonian Translocation 13:14

    BFP #3 9.10.13 mc at 4 weeks~Our little May Flower~ 

    BFP #4 10.13.13- Our Rainbow Baby, a little girl, arrived June 25, 2014! 

                                                                              


     

     

     

     

  • I am so sorry about your loss!
    BabyFetus Ticker BabyFruit Ticker BFP 2/22/12. Lost my perfect little girl due to a subchorionic hematoma (probable vanishing twin) on 4/27/12. D/C 5/22/12. BFP 8/21/12.
  • I'm so sorry (((hugs)))
    BFP #1 DD 5/31/08 BFP #2 EDD 12/02/10 mmc found 4/28/10 D&C 5/13/10 BFP #3 DS 5/15/11 BFP #4 EDD 08/02/13 BabyFruit Ticker
  • I am very sorry for your loss.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss.
    BFP #1 and m/c on 10/24/2010 ~6wks
    BFP #2 07/12/2012 (EDD 03/23/13); m/c 07/28/12
    BFP #3 12/05/2012 (EDD 08/19/2013); baby girl born 08/09!
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss.


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    Our Fighter Anna born early 1/8/13 at 26 weeks
    Hoping to bring home #3 due 9/9/15
  • I am so sorry.

    I had two losses in a row before this pregnancy, so although we're not an official success story I will be beginning the third trimester next week.  Hopefully the third time is the charm for you and DH.  

    And I know that a lot of docs wait for three losses before testing, but mine ran the RPL panel after my second loss (everything came back normal).  Maybe you could ask just in case there is something that is easily addressed? Also, as a precaution, I was one crinone for the first 10 weeks of this pregnancy. 

     If you have any questions, feel free to PM me.

    ((Hugs)) 

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    BFP#1 11/12/11 ~ No heartbeat 12/12/11 ~ D&C 12/19/11
    BFP#2 3/25/12 ~ Heartbeat 141 4/16/12 ~ No heartbeat 4/25/12 ~ D&C 04/30/12 
    BFP#3 7/16/12 ~ EDD 3/26/13 ~ It's a BOY ~ DOB 2/26/13






  • I'm so sorry.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.
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  • (((((hugs)))))) I'm so sorry.

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    BFP #1: 12/2009 m/c 1/2010 BFP #2: 6/2010 m/c 8/2010

    BFP #3: 10/2011 ectopic 11/2011 (right tube removed, learned left tube was probably nonfunctional due to scar tissue from infection after m/c)

    3 failed IUIs, IVF #1: 18R, 12M, 10F, 3 poor quality 5d embryos transferred= BFP #4!!!!!

    Betas: 9dp5dt: 64 ~14dp5dt: 91 (expecting miscarriage, doubling time of 236 hours) ~16dp5dt: 200~18dp5dt: 500

    First Ultrasound at 6w2d revealed two sacs, only one with a heartbeat

    LK arrived after 42 weeks on August 14, 2013! Beautiful, healthy, and happy!

    TTC#2: IVF booked for April 2015

    Surprise BFP#5 February 19, 2015 EDD: November 2, 2015

    Betas: 10dpo: 10, 14dpo: 77, 17dpo: 270

    First Ultrasound at 5w1d showed a miracle UTE baby! And right ovary ovulation to left fallopian tube.

    JD arrived at 38 weeks on October 20, 2015.

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