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Thanks for starting my morning off with a cry...

One of my fb friends sent me an invite to a page called "Pregnancy, what they didn't tell me". Oh. Thanks for reminding me I'm not pregnant and it doesn't matter what "they" didn't tell me because I'm not experiencing it anyway.

Re: Thanks for starting my morning off with a cry...

  • I'm sorry.  I know how you feel.  I have a pregnant coworker  that I recently shared our IF issues with, hoping that she would understand that it is hard for me to listen to the pregnancy talk non stop.  I even came out and told her that there are times when that the pregnancy talk gets to me (actually pregnancy talk doesn't bother me nearly as much as her nonstop complaining, but I was trying to be nice).  Apparently she is didn't get it at all.  This morning when another coworker and I were discussing buying dresses for upcoming weddings, she butted in and informed me that I'm lucky that I don't have to buy a materninty dress, because they are all ugly and look like mumus.  Yeah, I'm super lucky you insensitive twat.

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  • Ugh, I'm sorry. *hugs*
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  • ugh, that sucks. i'm sorry. people can be so oblivious sometimes. hang in there!
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  • I'm so sorry. People are stupid.

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  • imageTwinkie0612:
    I'm sorry.  I know how you feel.  I have a pregnant coworker  that I recently shared our IF issues with, hoping that she would understand that it is hard for me to listen to the pregnancy talk non stop.  I even came out and told her that there are times when that the pregnancy talk gets to me (actually pregnancy talk doesn't bother me nearly as much as her nonstop complaining, but I was trying to be nice).  Apparently she is didn't get it at all.  This morning when another coworker and I were discussing buying dresses for upcoming weddings, she butted in and informed me that I'm lucky that I don't have to buy a materninty dress, because they are all ugly and look like mumus.  Yeah, I'm super lucky you insensitive twat.

    If you had written this last Spring I would have sworn we must work at the same place! I cannot stand ungrateful people who complain about being pregnant nonstop. Really, really can't stand them.

    I am so sorry, OP. Your "friend" stinks today and I am waving a middle finger in that person's general direction. 

    TTC from May 2011 to Jan 2013. Due 9/11/13
  • :( that sucks. Did you send a snarky message to them?
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  • Very annoying.. I'm sorry OP.  I hope you cheer up and have a fabulous weekend! 

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  • I'm sorry she did that to you. Some people just don't think before they do things like that.
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    BFP #2: EDD 9/3/13~~Slow HB at 1st U/S~~MMC -Loss on 2/13/13
    9/13, 10/13, 1/14: letrozole + trigger + TI = All BFNs
    3/14: IUI#1 letrozole/Bravelle/Menopur + trigger = BFN
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  • Ugh so sorry!  I told myself several months ago that I when became pregnant, I would never complain.  Only my my mom and maybe my mother in law.  No one else.  Cause you never know who might be experiencing primary or secondary IF or a loss or anything.  Wish THAT was on the pregnancy web page that your friend sent you.  Rule #1 - do not complain about your pregnancy to anyone!!
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    Me: 33, hypothyroidism since 14, cleared all HSG, US, Pre-pregnancy panel tests.
    Hubby: 36, testicular Ca, chemo April-May 2012.
    Natural cycle IUI #1 with trigger and Progesterone Suppositories (Jun 2012) Neg
    Natural Cycle IUI #2 with trigger and Progesterone Suppositories (Jul 2012) NEG
    Aug 2012 - break due to needing a girls' weekend in Cape Cod
    Natural Cycle IUI #3 with trigger and prednisone (Sep 2012) NEGATIVE
    Switched fertility clinics - forced break Oct 2012
    Natural Cycle IUI #4 (Nov 2012) no trigger, no progesterone, no prednisone (Nov 2012) - Neg
    1st round Clomid Cycle IUI #5 (Dec 2012) - POS
  • I'm sorry that you had a bad morning... does your friend know about your TTTC?
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    BFP! 11/7/13 EDD 07/15/14 changed to 07/23/14 after first u/s

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