Sex while company is staying at your house?

BMnatz11

I've always been apprehensive about having sex while there is company staying at our house, family or friends, it doesn't matter. I want to know how the rest of you feel. Do you think it's weird to be having sex down the hall while parents or siblings are staying in a guest room? Do your opinions change during your fertile window? My DH doesn't have a problem at all and gets upset when I don't want to sometimes. The one time we had sex while my mom was visiting she thought we were arguing because DH was kind of loud O.o

DA682

We've only been in the opposite situation- having sex (b/c of FW) at families house. As long as you're not sharing a wall I don't think its too weird

 

 

AnnaMaria73

Lol! I'm exactly the same way!

sunlavender

Ninja sex.  It's fun.

BMnatz11

sunlavender:

Ninja sex.  It's fun.

This definitely made me laugh!  

BMnatz11

ColeRose:

If it is during my FW I don't give a crap if we have company over or if we are staying somewhere else. Bathrooms and closets are our best friends. We are super quiet though, I think it is tacky to have loud sex when company is around. Seriously, who wants to hear that? Especially parents.

This is exactly what I think, and why I suppose I feel the way I do. DH 'forgets' sometimes or just doesn't think about it until it's too late. 

babybean82

I don't have a problem with it at our house because our bedroom is in the basement and far away from our guest rooms, but over Thanksgiving we were visiting family and our room shared a wall with MIL's room in an old house with very thin walls ( I could hear her snoring like she was in the room with us) I couldn't get in the mood it was too weird for me.

AnnaMaria73

sunlavender:

Ninja sex.nbsp; It's fun.

I literally lol'd! I know all about "ninja sex" we lived with my IL's for a few months after we got married. Just imagine being newly weds, and living with the IL's.....yeah "ninja sex" for sure! Lol

doodiebug18

I say if people are at my house then I can have sex if I want obviously quietly, I feel weird having sex at someone else's house, although I've done it before. If its during my FW then ill have sex wherever

DachshundLove

BMnatz11:

sunlavender:

Ninja sex.  It's fun.

This definitely made me laugh!  

^ agreed, cracked me up!

When my mom came to visit us in our tiny apartment we had sex. We were super quiet, but it was bed time so it wasn't like we were gonna go get it on at 3pm or anything obvious. lol 

MrsMommyQ

doodiebug18:

I say if people are at my house then I can have sex if I want obviously quietly, I feel weird having sex at someone else's house, although I've done it before. If its during my FW then ill have sex wherever

All of this!

ColinTheRobot

DH and I just turn down the volume when there is company. It doesn't take a lot to remember to be quiet, just respect for your guests who may feel uncomfortable if they hear you.

jenaw84

We haven't had overnight guest since we've been TTC so it's never been a timing issue.  I wouldn't get all loud and rowdy, but if it was during our FW it's on.  We usually are the ones traveling so it depends on where we go and where we're staying.  I'm not a fan of other people's houses, we've had quickies on the road before arriving.

okballet16

DH's uncle stayed a couple weeks ago and slept on the couch and we had sex very quietly in our bedroom that night. The next morning when DH and his uncle went hunting, his uncle mentioned that he could hear what we were saying (and doing). We need a bigger house

curlylocks3

We normally don't do it when we have company unless its FW. Get creative if you need to I was really paranoid that our bed was too loud so we'd normally do something like sex with me sitting on the bathroom counter or something.

Bakes4u

Just pretend you are in college. Sex away.

babydreams13

Do what you gotta do to make it happen.  My FW was over Thanksgiving weekend and we had guests over but we made it happen anyways.  We were just more quiet than usual and turned the TV on.  Good luck

sunlavender

bakes4u:

Just pretend you are in college. Sex away.

Should they put a sock on the door?

sunlavender

ColeRose:

If it is during my FW I don't give a crap if we have company over or if we are staying somewhere else. Bathrooms and closets are our best friends. We are super quiet though, I think it is tacky to have loud sex when company is around. Seriously, who wants to hear that? Especially parents.

I say, the louder the better.  That way they can cheer you on!

camichael84

Meh, it's no big deal to us. We don't get a lot of company staying over, but it's never stopped us when we do. Granted, we lived with DH's parents for 10 months when we were engaged, so we know how to be stealthy.

charlydoom

It's your house and you're adults. HIO!

JuneBug86

We have a no sex while guests are over rule. DH couldn't care less, it's me that has an issue with it. I just can't.

thehunterswife

We have sex while company is over. We just turn the tv on and try to be as quiet as possible!!! Wouldn't want to waste my FW!!

LexiCon28

Go for it! My husband and I have done it a few times and each time we wound up laughing so hard when one of us made a loud-ish noise. It was silly and fun.  

bewilderingstar

sunlavender:

bakes4u:

Just pretend you are in college. Sex away.

Should they put a sock on the door?

 A tie, duh!

CaliforniaDream87

I wouldn't care who's in the house during my FW...

Bakes4u

bewilderingstar:

sunlavender:

bakes4u:

Just pretend you are in college. Sex away.

Should they put a sock on the door?

 A tie, duh!

A sock or a tie is acceptable. Better yet leave the door open it's college anything goes!

GenaBoBenaWife

MH has no problem with it, but I just can't get in the mood when I know we have parents/siblings sleeping across the hall. If it was my FW though, all bets would be off.

jeffsjayme

Consider it practice for when you have kids old enough to get it.

VitaLuna

We rarely have house guests, but if it was during my FW, I would totally go for it. If it wasn't during FW, I might think twice, but I've done it before when the IL's were visiting. We were just very quiet.. I hope

CiderWench

I would have sex in front of my company if it meant a bfp that cycle.

LexiCon28

CiderWench:

I would have sex in front of my company if it meant a bfp that cycle.

Hahaha I love it!  

racheldcarrell

CiderWench:

I would have sex in front of my company if it meant a bfp that cycle.

 Yup! 

anvloveskme

At my own house, no biggie, I'd just keep it down.  At someone else's house - it would depend on the person.

beachcomberbride

If people are good enough friends to be coming to our house, they already know that we are very physically affectionate. Our friends are all very open minded. And if it's during the fertile window, there is NO way that we are missing out on that chance!!!

STBMrsMiller

Both sets of parents are going to be here at Christmas, and it might be our FW. They do so much b!tching about wanting a grandchild that I don't think I'll have a problem if we need to HIO.

WashingtonQueen

sunlavender:

Ninja sex.  It's fun.

Haha! I will be doing that this weekend. My mom and little brother are staying with us during my FW.

Mysterious_wife

We do all the time. Last summer we were heard having sex in the shower. We thought our friends had went to bed on the other end of the house. It was 3am. We were tipsy. The next day the ragged our asses about it. I am thankful it was our two closest friends. They still make snide jokes at inappropriate times and we all bust out laughing.

My brother and SIL were here three weeks ago. DH and I had sex a few times that weekend. We don't care. We're adults. We're in our home.

FoxiePM

We have an 8 yr old. It is always sun pattened ninja sex. Shower sex is great!

brittas

Just keep it down.  I think its exciting when you have to be a little sneaky!  I definitely wouldn't miss it during my FW.