I just had DD 5 days ago. DS has been a handful for the last month or so. Not listening, whining and crying about EVERYTHING, etc, but he's about to turn 3, so we've been expecting it. His behavior has very little, if anything, to do with DD's arrival. His daily routine has remained untouched and we give him about the same amount of attention as usual. Today has been awful and DH and I are considering taking DS to preschool 4 or 5 days a week; he currently goes 3, but we pay for him to go every day. Is it terrible to take him more often? We are both just feeling so overwhelmed and I feel like it may keep him more grounded? Does that make us terrible parents? To dump him at school more often for our own sanity?