We have a 3.5 year old dd and still have all of the baby gear. I'm not a fan of people having another shower for a second or third child, however a few people have asked if I'm having one. When I say no, they say, but you're having twins! Am I missing something? We need another carseat and stroller, but other than that we're set. I have a friend giving me all her extra baby gear (seats, exersauxer, swing, etc), so we don't need those things.
I've been to "sprinkles" when friends have their second or third and think those are cute, but I'm just not sure. So, if twins were your second or third pregnancy, did you have a shower? Is it a must do?