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T & P needed for my boys.

Damien was supposed to come home today but instead had a blood transfusion for low hematocrit/red blood cell levels. Jace has been home with me since last Wednesday, but his levels last week were borderline and will be checked tomorrow. The doctor told me to expect him to have an outpatient transfusion this week. I have an antibody from a blood transfusion that passed through to them and is now attacking their red blood cells. The doctor said they could need multiple transfusions. Also that I should be prepared for these to be my last babies as the antibody gets stronger in subsequent pregnancies. I feel terribly guilty for harming my babies and devastated that I may never have more children. 
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  • I'm sorry you're going through this, but please don't blame yourself. Sending T&P your way.
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  • I am SO sorry to hear all of that, I will be thinking about your boys.  I lost my uterus at delivery so along with that the possibility of having more babies.  When you are dealing with medical issues with your children and your reality of not having more children that is incredibly overwhelming.  Take lots of deep breaths, cry when you can, and allow yourself the time to mourn that loss after your babies are home and doing well.  I am so sorry for you.  I also hope the boys bounce back very soon!
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  • :(:( That's so awful. Did they give you the wrong blood type in your transfusion??? Is it an Rh issue? Cherish them and love them and hang in there. More information tomorrow will at least be one less thing to sit around anticipating. <3
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  • Keeping you and the boys in my thoughts. 
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  • I'm sorry to hear that, I hope they pull through quickly :(
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  • I'm sorry you have to deal with this.  Please try not to blame yourself.  You would have never purposely given your babies anything that would in any way harm them.  You've already done so much good for them.  T & P for your family!
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  • I'm so sorry, sending positive thoughts your way!!!!
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  • I'm sorry to hear this.  Sending T&Ps to you all.
  • Oh hun, I am so sorry. I am praying for your boys and for you. (HUGS)
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  • So sorry to hear this, sending lots of thoughts and prayers your way.
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  • Sending T & P, and I am very sorry to hear that you are going through this.
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  • I am so sorry to read this. :( T&P for you and your sweet boys.....and like PP have been saying....don't blame yourself! I hope everything will turn out OK and Damien will be home soon!
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  • I am so sorry to hear this, but please do not blame yourself.  Sending lots of positive thoughts to you and your boys. 

                          

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  • Sending T&Ps your way!  Please don't feel guilty - there isn't anything you could have done.
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  • I'm so sorry to hear this. T & P for J and D.
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  • Praying for you boys and for you!  May you have peace in your hear that you a great mom.
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  • Please don't feel guilty for something that is out of your control.  Sending thoughts for a speedy recovery!

     

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  • You have not harmed your babies! Try to not feel guilty! T&ps for both of your babied!
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  • I'm so sorry that you are going through this - please try not to blame yourself.  This was clearly out of your control.  T&P for you and your little boys.
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  • Ill keep you and your precious boys in my thoughts and prayers!
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