Bad timing?

The Nap Taker

I introduced myself on TTGP board, I spend the majority of my time there but like to come over here because you ladies are so funny and I really need a good laugh most days.

My DH and I have been TTGP since April and it has been very challenging. I have never been regular, some months I have two periods, and at times my cycle is anywhere from 28-45 days. The first time I got pregnant it surprisingly happened rather quick but now that we are having such a hard time with number 2 my DH wants to stop trying until after the new year. I understand where he is coming from but I can't help but feel disappointed and angry.

A little about me: I love the water, Christmas music, and strawberry shakes. I'm 32, tired all the time and my tits sag. I hate to work out, love to eat, and drink wine.

 

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Are you temping or using OPKs?  It's possible that you could be missing your FW every month. 

EVA116

Hey! I am in the same boat. We have been trying for a little less time but I did get pregnant with DD really quick. Not sure what we are doing wrong now.

GL to you and welcome!

The Nap Taker

sofamonkey:

Are you temping or using OPKs?  It's possible that you could be missing your FW every month. 

To be honest I bought the clear blue easy monitor and it wouldn't work for me since I will go 40 days without a period at times. It's just aggravating because it was so easy the first time. And I have to try harder when it come to temping, I get so frazzled in the morning and I forget at times. But now this is just causing problems in my marriage. Dang it body!! 

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AshPal61:

Hey, I say go ahead and "stop trying"...it's how I finally got KU with DD2.

Sorry you guys are stressing over it.

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The Nap Taker:

sofamonkey:

Are you temping or using OPKs?  It's possible that you could be missing your FW every month. 

To be honest I bought the clear blue easy monitor and it wouldn't work for me since I will go 40 days without a period at times. It's just aggravating because it was so easy the first time. And I have to try harder when it come to temping, I get so frazzled in the morning and I forget at times. But now this is just causing problems in my marriage. Dang it body!! 

Well, I can't temp.  I don't sleep well enough for it.  Target has cheap OPKs.  I've used the monitor & the Target ones.  With your long cycles, I would say POAS over the monitor.   GL!