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XP from BMB Vent about Sandy and 1st u/s appointment

minicheezburgminicheezburg member
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My appointment for tomorrow has been rescheduled for NEXT Wednesday. A whole week away. I made it all the way to the day before and now it is changed.

Yeah not thrilled. I am actually quite p!ssed. It is barely raining here and the wind is barely moving the trees. It better get a lot worse. I wanna know that my baby is alive and well. Now I get to wait another week.

 UGH

/vent

Me(26)DH(33)
TTC for #1 since Jan 2010
BFP #1 Oct 1 2010 MC Oct 3 2010
DX PCOS w/ AO Nov 2011
3 rounds of Clomid all BFN
BFP #2 10/12/12 Beta #1 45.1 Beta #2 160.7 * 2/27 diagnosed with IEF in utero.
Dalaney born @ 35w2d via emergency C-section due to Pre-E after 30 hrs of labor & losing her HB twice. She weighed 5lbs 8oz & was 19in long on May 26th 2013 @ 605am

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Re: XP from BMB Vent about Sandy and 1st u/s appointment

  • sammer818sammer818 member
    Sorry to hear. My first appointment isn't until next Monday. That has nothing to do with Sandy or a hurricane (if we ever got a hurricane in WI, I think I'd be worried about more than just an ultrasound!), but the waiting and peace of mind/anxiety that goes along with that first appointment is the pits. Hang in there and hopefully Wednesday will be here before you know it!

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    BFP #1 – March 2011, missed m/c April 2011
    BFP #2 – October 2011, m/c November 2011
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    BFP #4 – June 2012, m/c July 2012
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    BFP #5 – October 2012, missed m/c November 2012
    BFP #6 – January 2013, m/c March 2013
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  • jelerojelero member
    Oh, that's lame! I'm sorry. It's good that you and your LO will be safe though.
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  • kread8kread8 member
    Ugh I'm sorry - that really sucks.  Stay safe though!!!!

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  • Meow7511Meow7511
    Ugh that stinks! I'm sorry.
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  • newbeg826newbeg826
    That stinks really bad. I am so sorry. I wasn't able to set up my first appt/beta draws/ultrasound either because of everything being closed due to Sandy. One positive thing, the baby will be further along so you will get to see more.
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  • CNYBride05CNYBride05 member
    Really?!  "It better get a lot worse"?!  I'm totally appalled that you wrote this and that people are commiserating with you.  People are DYING and you are hoping the storm gets worse to justify your appt being delayed 1 week?  Nice values here.  
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  • KacyChicagoKacyChicago member

    imageCNYBride05:
    Really?!  "It better get a lot worse"?!  I'm totally appalled that you wrote this and that people are commiserating with you.  People are DYING and you are hoping the storm gets worse to justify your appt being delayed 1 week?  Nice values here.  

    I hate to agree here ... But you said "It better get a lot worse," so I'm glad someone spoke up. I understand wanting to see your baby. I get that, I really do. But to be that irritated over your appointment being moved when the whole East Coast is under such a bad storm really rubs me the wrong way. And like a previous poster said, at least next week you'll be able to see more. But seriously, people have already been killed by this storm, so please try to remember the bigger picture here ... And thank your health-care providers for trying to keep you and your baby safe instead of flipping out for having to wait a little bit longer.

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  • mijakachmijakach member

    imageCNYBride05:
    Really?!  "It better get a lot worse"?!  I'm totally appalled that you wrote this and that people are commiserating with you.  People are DYING and you are hoping the storm gets worse to justify your appt being delayed 1 week?  Nice values here.  

    I'm gonna have to agree with this. I totally get that it sucks to have your appointment cancelled...especially when it's your first appointment. But to wish that the storm gets worse is really insensitive. This storm is really scary and is already causing lots of damage before it's even peaked. People are losing their lives and homes. It's not just any old storm and I wish that it wouldn't get worse! That's just really insensitive to want it to get worse just to justify your appointment getting delayed.

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  • minicheezburgminicheezburg member

     

    ETA Oh WAIT I just saw who actually said that. Weird.

    Me(26)DH(33)
    TTC for #1 since Jan 2010
    BFP #1 Oct 1 2010 MC Oct 3 2010
    DX PCOS w/ AO Nov 2011
    3 rounds of Clomid all BFN
    BFP #2 10/12/12 Beta #1 45.1 Beta #2 160.7 * 2/27 diagnosed with IEF in utero.
    Dalaney born @ 35w2d via emergency C-section due to Pre-E after 30 hrs of labor & losing her HB twice. She weighed 5lbs 8oz & was 19in long on May 26th 2013 @ 605am

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    "Severe truth is expressed with some bitterness."
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  • Kimber517Kimber517 member

    imageCNYBride05:
    Really?!  "It better get a lot worse"?!  I'm totally appalled that you wrote this and that people are commiserating with you.  People are DYING and you are hoping the storm gets worse to justify your appt being delayed 1 week?  Nice values here.  

    this..  I'm home in FL hoping my family still has homes in NJ and you hope it gets worse, have you watched the news? It's like a war zone on the east coast.   We all understand the anxiety and wanting to see your LO, but think before you post...  

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