So I don't post here very often, but I do lurk regularly so I feel like I "know" a lot of you.
My SS (11)'s mom was lost in a horrible car accident late Friday evening. So we have a tough road ahead of us, as SS will be with us full-time now. I don't know really know how to feel...honestly, its a very overwhelming. I'm very sad for my SS who is left without a mother at such a young age. I'm sad that he has to change schools for the second time in a month (she and her DH were divorcing) and that his life is never going to be the same. I'm sad for my DH, who has wanted primary custody for so long, but never in a million years wished this was how he would get it.
Anyway, I don't really know why I'm sharing this, but maybe to remind us all that life is short and while blended families can be very trying, these kids need all their parents (bio, step, etc.).
Please send T & P's for my SS; he definitely needs all he can get.
Re: Sad news - T & P's appreciated
Thoughts and prayers are coming your way! I definitely second this.
Thanks. He doesn't have any other siblings on that side of the family, but we are making sure that he still has access to her side of the family and his SF. We have actually been encouraging him to go spend time with his grandma (her mom). Right now, I think he feels like he can avoid thinking about it by not going since its still "normal" at our house. He's actually with them now, which is good. Hopefully, being around them will help him to get through it.
We're also looking into counseling for him, as well as some local support groups.
It's such an awful situation and my heart just breaks for him.
My dd's BF passed away suddenly almost 4 years ago when she was 9. Please feel free to PM me if you want to talk, or need advice. It's definately a difficult situation.
And come back here even when you feel ridiculous, we can be blunt but this board is helpful.
Ditto this. Those connections are so important! DH lost his mother at a young age, and it means the world to him that he is still connected to his mother via her family. It answers a lot of questions that DH STILL has at age 50+ - many because his dad remarried and refused to talk about his mom anymore
I am so sorry for your SS. T&P for him and for your family.
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