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mini update - Tommy is coming home!

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He is such a great eater and does not have any other issues, so they are letting us take Tommy home! I wish Charlie could come too, but he has not quite gotten the hang of sucking yet. He also has some pretty bad reflux.


We are over the moon about Tommy, but it feels wrong to leave with just one of them. Sad

BFP#1 12/18/10 EDD 8/28/11 | 2/14/11 discovered that our baby girl had anencephaly D&C 2/17/11 at 12.5 weeks | no O or AF post loss - Dx: AO + mild PCOS = secondary infertility Provera after 70 days = AF but no O | Provera + 50mg Clomid after 110 days = AF but no O 3 rounds of 100mg Clomid + Estrogen + Progesterone = mixed O results, all BFN hysteroscopy 1/6/12 - removed fibroid tissue injection cycle #1 - 75 IU follistim + ovidrel (triggered 2/9/12) + endometrin = BFP! EDD 11/3/12 | Beta @ 13dpo = 184, 17dpo = 993, 26dpo = >5000 IT'S TWIN BOYS!! Tommy and Charlie arrived on 9/10/12 after less than 6 hours of labor at 32 weeks Image and video hosting by TinyPic Image and video hosting by TinyPic Image and video hosting by TinyPic Lilypie Premature Baby tickers
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  • Ktrue85Ktrue85 member
    What wonderful news!!  Congrats for you and Tommy, and I am keeping everything crossed that Charlie won't be far behind!
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    CP: 01/2011 |  MMC: 01/2012  |  MMC: 10/2012  |  DS: 11/2013  |  MMC: 11/2014  |  DD: 01/2016
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  • KacyChicagoKacyChicago member

    I am so happy to see that Tommy is coming home, but I know that it must be hard to leave Charlie at the hospital.

    I've followed your pregnancy throughout, and never got a chance to tell you congratulations on the boys. Y'all have been on my mind since their arrival. I am excited to see that things are going so well, and I hope that Charlie is home with his family really, really soon!

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  • Mom2anAngel2Mom2anAngel2 member
    Such a bitter sweet moment!  Congrats on bringing one of you little guys home, I am sure that both will be home before you know it.  Besides, this can give you a chance to "break things in."  (Just trying to put a positive spin on it -- hope it helps)

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  • GaiaEarthMom12GaiaEarthMom12 member
    Aw, that is wonderful! I can imagine that it must be so hard to not take both of them home. Hoping Charlie can join you soon! :)
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  • delinodelino member
    I'm sorry you can't bring both of them home together. Very soon your family will all be together.
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  • FreyaWin2382FreyaWin2382 member
    (((HUGS))) mama. I am so happy to hear that little Tommy gets to come home! I know that little Charlie will be soon to follow!
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  • bananersbananers member
    It's a big step in the right direction. Congrats! I know Charlie will be coming home soon too.
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    BFP #2 8/22/12 | EDD 5/5/13 | DS1 born 5/9/13

    BFP #3 4/25/15 | EDD 1/7/16 | MMC 7/2/15 @ 13w1d | D&E 7/8/15

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  • kpowers982kpowers982 member
    I can imagine that would be a very mixed bag of emotions.  But:  hooray for Tommy!  I'm sure Charlie will join you guys before you know it :)
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  • jbranden12jbranden12 member
    Congrats on bringing Tommy home! It must be difficult to leave Charlie, but remember now that Tommy is healthy, he is better off at home with constant mama cuddling! I hope Charlie joins him soon!


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  • MoreThanABrideMoreThanABride member
    That's great news! I hope you will all be together soon.

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  • angielayne926angielayne926 member
    So glad one of your guys gets to come home, that is great! Hopefully you'll have both of them home with you soon.

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  • melly918melly918 member

    Congrats and I hope litttle Charlie can come home to his family very soon!

     

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  • SoCoGirlSoCoGirl member
    Yay that Tommy gets to come home, hopefully Charlie is right behind him! 
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  • Allycat11Allycat11 member
    I am so glad Tommy gets to come home! Many prayers that Charlie will be joining him soon. 
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  • benoitfanbenoitfan member
    Wonderful news about Tommy!  I sure can understand it feeling weird to bring one home and leave Charlie at the NICU, but he's growing bigger and stronger everyday and will catch up with Tommy soon.  You all continue to be in my T&P.
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  • ShaungelaShaungela member
    Great news!!!  I hope Charlie is not too far behind!
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    Sorry that you can't take both of your babies home, but yay for being able to take Tommy home! Here's hoping that Charlie follows suit!
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  • CnAnACnAnA member
    Good job Tommy! Hopefully Charlie will follow soon. :)

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  • orangegogglesorangegoggles member
    Congrats and ((Hugs)). I know it must be hard to leave Charlie. Sending lots of thoughts and prayers that he comes home shortly behind Tommy.
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  • morkmork member
    Yay Tommy!  I'm sure little Charlie will be right behind him. Smile
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  • nuttycoconutnuttycoconut member
    I'm so happy about your sweet baby Tommy! 
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