Late Term and Child Loss

Introducing myself and my son

I've been a permanent Sept 2012 board lurker my entire pregnancy. My son was due 9-21 but decided he didn't want to come out.  I had a doctor appointment on 9/26 and was scheduled to be induced 9/28. He was a happy littke boy on the 26th but when we got to the hospital on the 28th he didn't have a heartbeat. 

 My husband and I are completely lost. I've read some of the posts on this board and decided I could lurk no more, 

 I look forward to figuring some of this out with all you wonderful ladies. It'll be nice to chat with people in my position. Not many people get what we're going through.  

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Re: Introducing myself and my son

  • I am so sorry you find yourself here. I'm sorry about your son ((hugs)). This is a board full of wonderful, supportive, and caring women. If you don't mind sharing, what is your little boy's name? We are all here for you anytime. Right Hug
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  • I am so sorry for the loss of your son. {{hugs}}

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    I am so sorry for the loss of your precious son. We can all relate to the utter nightmare that you are living right now. The days after our daughter was born sleeping are a blur to me. Somehow, we made it through and the women of this board were of great comfort. Please check out our blog for some words of comfort for new loss moms: https://thelossblog.blogspot.com/. Take care of yourself and your husband now, and post as often or as little as you need to. We are here for you. I am so sorry to welcome you to the board.



      Our Angel Patricia born sleeping 3/30/12 at 31 weeks
    Our Fighter Anna born early 1/8/13 at 26 weeks
    Hoping to bring home #3 due 9/9/15
  • I am so, so sorry for your loss. I was a September 2012 member, too [my son was born sleeping on 8/19 due to placental abruption, but I was due 9/24]. Please know that we are here for you to vent, cry or just talk; feel free to PM me if you do need to chat at any time. I'm so sorry to welcome you here; please take care of yourself and know that we are here for you.
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  • I am so sorry for the loss of your son. I am new here as well, we lost our little boy, Eli, on 9/24. The women on this board are amazing & have welcomed me with open arms! Just take it one hour, one minute or one second at a time, that's all you can do.
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  • I am so sorry for the loss of your son. I hate to welcome you here considering the circumstances but hope you can find some comfort and support from these wonderful women. 
    BFP #1 - Missed M/C, D&C 3.21.11

    BFP #2 - Sylvie V. Q. born and died on 10.28.11 at 21w. Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

    BFP #3 - Evie V. Q. Fetal demise @ 16w. DC 7.8.12
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    BFP  #4 - Beatrix V. Q. Born 6.2.13 at 23w6d.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss and wish I could give you a big hug in person.  This board has been so great for me and I hope that you find comfort here as well.  
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  • I am so sorry for the loss of your precious son. I hate to welcome you here, but I hope you find this board a comfort. It has been a life raft during my waves of grief. Be gentle with yourself during these first days and weeks.

    ((HUGS))

    BFP #1 12.24.07 - DD born @ 39w1d on 08.26.08
    BFP #2 08.04.11 - DD born still @ 37w3d on 03.25.12

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    TTC #3 since May 2012

    BFP #3 12.29.12 - CP @ 4w2d on 01.02.13
    BFP #4 10.17.13 - CP @ 4w2d on 10.23.13

    BFP #5 04.06.14 - MMC 05.07.14

    No longer trying to conceive.

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  • I am so sorry for your loss.  My situation similar as I was overdue and went in and there was no hb.  Please PM me if you need anything.  
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    I am so sorry you find yourself here. I'm sorry about your son ((hugs)). This is a board full of wonderful, supportive, and caring women. If you don't mind sharing, what is your little boy's name? We are all here for you anytime. Right Hug

     Thanks everyone.  

     His name was Bradley.  

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  • I'm truly sorry for your loss. Losing a baby is a pain no one should ever have to feel. You are in a safe place here though, where we can all relate to the abyss you now find yourself in.

    This board was a lifesaver for me after my son died last year. It was amazing to me that some moms were still walking and talking 6 months, a year, or more after their loss, but somehow we are.

    We are here when you need to vent, cry, ask questions, be understood.

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    I am sorry for the loss of your baby boy. Did you name him? The woman here are amazing. Please post as often as you need to. We understand and will be here for you.

    Be gentle on yourself and know that your son knew only love. The days to come will be the hardest you will ever have to face. Remember to eat and take deep breaths. The pain will never go away but it will get easier to carry. 

    Big hugs to you and your family during this difficult time. 

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  • I am so sorry for the loss of your precious Bradley. I hate to welcome you here but you certainly are welcome amongst our family. I wish you peace and comfort in these uocomming weeks and days. Lots of hugs and love.
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  • I'm so sorry that you have to join us, but, as you can see, you have come to the right place for support from people who truly understand. My son Julian was stillborn two days before his due date. That was 10 weeks ago.

    Please feel free to share as much or as little as you like here about yourself and your dear little Bradley.
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  • I am so sorry for the loss of you son.  I wish that you didn't have to be here.

    I lost my daughter at 39 weeks.  I went to my regular appointment with hopes of talking about an induction because I was so ready for her to be here.  But there was no longer a heartbeat.

    It is the most unbelievable thing that could ever happen.  Again, I am so sorry for your loss.  But, please know we are all here for you. 

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers 

    BFP #1 Jan. 2011 - mmc Mar. 2011 
    BFP #2 Aug. 2011 - My sleeping angel Stella, born April 21, 2012 
    BFP #3 Nov. 2012 - mmc Dec. 2012
    BFP #4 April 2013 - mc May 2013
    BFP #5 Sept. 2013 - EDD 5.24.14
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    I'm so sorry for the loss of your precious Bradley.  I hope you'll be able to find comfort and support here with us.

    Mom to Eliott Alexander, born sleeping at 37 weeks on 8/13/10. Most of us only dream of angels - I held one in my arms.
    BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d
    BFP #3 - EDD 4/7/12 M/C 8/2/11 @ 4w2d
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    BFP #4 - EDD 12/09/12, Lucille arrived 11/26/12
  • I am so sorry for the loss of your son. I hate that you have to be here, but this board is amazing. Please be gentle on yourself. Huge hugs to you.
  • I'm so sorry for your loss.
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  • I am so sorry for the loss of your son. I hate that you have to be here. This board has offered a lot of support for me and I hope you find comfort here too.

    Severe endo & fibroids, IVF #1 BFP with twins, Gabriel Mark (5/20/12) & Zachary David (5/24/12)- said goodbye to my two angels at 17 weeks due to pprom. Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

    IVF#2 FET 9/24, Beta #1 10/3...

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  • I am so very sorry for the loss of your son.
    I am a mother to two daughters. Our first is a lovely and vibrant three-year old. Our second, passed away during the sixth month of pregnancy (June 2012).
  • I am so sorry for the loss of your Bradley.  Please feel free to come here anytime you need to.  There are - unfortunately - so many of us here and at so many different places and stages in this horrible journey.
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