So, MIL is still here. She is basically treating us like a hotel. She sleeps, wakes up and demands food and drink, and then leaves the house to do different things. She rarely picks up the baby and just talks non-stop. Yesterday, DH started crying because he was expecting her to love all over our baby (I was expecting that too), and she is so not. He wanted a completely different experience and he is not getting it. I feel really bad for him. I wish she would act like a normal person.
Update: DH actually stood up to her this afternoon as she was leaving at 12:00 to spend the rest of the day with her friends. He asked if she came to see us or to spend time away. She left anyway. Tonight, Boo smiled and laughed for the first time. She could have been here to see it and I wish she had because my parents get all the firsts because they live here. This could have been DH's one first with his family. It just makes me sad that she is this way. But, at least DH is seeing her like I have all along and gets my frustration. And, I am sad she missed out on the fun.
Re: I feel really bad for DH:Updated
At least you're halfway through her visit. Sorry she's being such a pain.
IUI#2 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 5-9) = BFN
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beta #1 11/23 = 270, P4 = 75
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Ugh, that is so hard! I'm sorry.
I'm glad your husband said something to her! It really is her loss, though.