I just wanted to vent a bit about my SIL.......who is DH's only sister (twin sister). I am so disappointed in her. While I pregnant, around Christmas, she wrote a very rude e-mail to family...she has a lot of issues with the family that go way deeper than I would ever want to try and understand BUT in her e-mail she was very rude to me, when she described as her brother's partner. I was hurt my this, I have been apart of family for 7years and thought her and I were close. I confronted her about it, she apologize and said how excited she was to becoming an aunt, and wanted to be a big part of Jonathan's life; and I said yes that's what we wanted to, and we should out unnecessary drama behind us.
Jonathan is 6 months on sat, and she has seen him a total of 4 times. A part of me is saying I shouldn't care, because we have a HUGE family and Jonathan has lots of people who love and adore him! But the other part is so disappointed in her! She's been using the excuse the her being a full time student in grad school has kept her from not having any time....and i just don't think that is a good enough excuse, because I know many people getting their masters, working full time and still seeing family. She never calls or text asking how he is doing. She never calls to try and make plans to see him. It is just so sad to me! DH and I sent her a message congratulating her on finishing school and graduating..and she replied THANKS! that's IT...no how are you guys, how Jonathan doing NOTHING!
Sometimes I just want to lash out at her! Especially when I see her post on FB that she's is out partying, or spending time with her friends kids....but her nephew doesn't exist! and other times I don't think I should waste my breathe. DH is very mad at her as well, and neither of us know how to handle this. Just so disappointing and sad! Baptism is coming up, and I dont even want her there. Jonathan is a great kid and so much fun..I don't understand why she is being like this!