Even drinking to get buzzed every weekend is not a normal grow up thing to do. I hate to point this out but there is a good chance he is either an addict or just does not want to grow up, either way if he has gotten this far with no indication that he plans on stopping you are likely to be doing it alone.
I would first want to figure out if he is an alcoholic, if so he needs rehab or at least lots of AAA meetings. If he is not an alcoholic and just chooses to binge drink on weekends I would try to talk to him about how you cannot drink anymore because you are PG and would like him to sometimes stay home with you and talk about your expectations after the baby is here, if he seems unwilling to change you have to decide if you want to stay with him and parent this way.
And needing to get buzzed to unwind on the weekends is not a normal adult thing to do, many people do it but needing to is not what responsible parents to be do.
VinaHoney
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I would first want to figure out if he is an alcoholic, if so he needs rehab or at least lots of AAA meetings. If he is not an alcoholic and just chooses to binge drink on weekends I would try to talk to him about how you cannot drink anymore because you are PG and would like him to sometimes stay home with you and talk about your expectations after the baby is here, if he seems unwilling to change you have to decide if you want to stay with him and parent this way.
And needing to get buzzed to unwind on the weekends is not a normal adult thing to do, many people do it but needing to is not what responsible parents to be do.