so irritated with this process

prokesh1

So i call the doctors today to talk to an advice nurse about this hsg test they are supposed to do. I get the obgyn department and i assume im going to talk to a nurse that specializes in obgyn related issues. Apparently not. im trying to ask her if its really necessary and how long i really need to wait to get the test and if theres any risk. And her response was "well you still have a couple weeks but you shouldnt be ttc yet because your body needs time to heal and you need a follow up first." i had told her i was at the end of my first menstraul cycle after my mc and she was like well those are questions you need to ask the obgyn....I am just thinking to myself what are you here for then. And frankly if i hear one more time you need to wait for your body to heal im gonna scream. I mean how freaking long am i going to have to wait. I feel so frustrated with this whole situation. I just feel like im in limbo...i dont have a baby but i want a baby but i cant even try to have a baby until they give the green light but i read all these different opinions on line and i have no idea who to listen to....sry just needed to vent

Laurakat81

I'm sorry you're in limbo and the professionals are making this any easier on you. I hope you get your answers soon. For what its worth...stay away from Dr. Google!

nrcross

Sorry this is so frustrating for you. I am just waiting to miscarry right now. I met with the DR yesterday, and he told us to wait one to two cycles. I asked him is there any problems if you get pregnant earlier as far as risks for the baby, and he said no. My understanding is that the wait time is more for emotional reasons and not physical. Of course everyone's situation is different, I just wish your DR would give you a solid answer.