I am pregnant with my first but my neighbor just had her first baby about two months ago. I have learned a lot from TB but don't tell her I am on her because I like being anonymous. However, she is using this carrier with her little girl. I am pretty sure that is the exact one but it is definitely that brand. How do I encourage her to use something better? The baby always looks so awkward in it. Should I just leave it alone? Email her an article about carriers? Put something on FB and hope she sees it? Or am I totally wrong and this carrier is just fine...help!