I might have asked this before (or on the preschool board?) and the basic advice I got was just to not give DD alot of chances to lie - so don't set her up to lie and I've tried to do that - and ignore or humor her as appropriate.
Well - we've had two blatant lies in the last week or so.
#1 - over the weekend, she asked for some cookies and I told her she could have 2, but needed to sit down and eat them. I let her pick the 2 she wanted and set her up at the counter and letf the open packet of oreos on the kitchen counter (behind where she was sitting). I left the room to go put some laundry away, came back a few minutes later and she was hunched over in her seat. I thought she was hurt or playing a game, so I said what are you doing and she said "nothing" and then I saw a cookie piece in her lap and then saw she had re-opened the packet of cookies. I asked her if she got another cookie and she said no - and then I asked why she had a cookie in her hand and she said she just wanted to have another bite of a cookie. I didn't make a big deal about b/c her friend was coming over for a playdate in a few minutes and I knew it would become a major deal - but geez man, sneaky!
#2 - this morning, we went upstairs to get dressed. I left DD in her room w/ a dress, shoes and socks and underwear and told her to take off her nightgown and pull up and start getting dressed. She normally needs some reminders/help w/ getting dressed but does it on her own. I was brushing my teeth and called out to ask her what she was doing and she said "I'm getting dressed" so I just went ahead and started getting dressed myself. Then, I look in her room - and she hasn't done ANYTHING, she's busy humping her blanket (LOL!) - she totally lied to me. I repeated to her to get dressed, etc. and she finally got going with it.
I really don't knwo what to do about the lying. .. . I don't think I should overlook it, but I don't want to overreact either and freak out about a fairly normally development.
Re: ok - so blatant, sneaky lying has started. . . how to handle (mini novel. .. )
miscarriage on 11/26/09 at 5w6d