So by now you all know I am a dirty sinner and am having a baby out of wedlock I know shocking LOL anyway since my fianc? and I will not be legally married when the baby comes does anyone know what I have to do so that he makes any health care decisions if I am unable? I think it?s called a health care proxy or something. Also where I go to get this taken care of, the hospital? An attorney? My fianc? will be the only one in the room for me and I don?t want anyone making the call if something happens to me. I know it?s a morbid way to think but I think it?s best to be prepared.