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Saying goodbye this week....

Tiffany946Tiffany946
in Late Term and Child Loss
Today, we received the final verdict from our MFS.  Our baby's intestines are outside the body in a separate sac, not just a few, but all of them.  Also, the brain is located outside of the skull.  There is nothing that can be done now and we must figure out our next steps.  I never thought I would be making these choices or figuring out these logistics of the next days of my life.  I just want to move on, but saying goodbye has been so difficult for me to do.
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  • jbranden12jbranden12 member
    Tiffany, I am so sorry for the loss of all of your babies. I have never been faced with the choices you are making, but I know there are women here who tfmr or ctt with diagnoses incompatible with life. Also, I know that we never truly say goodbye to our children. I wish you and your family strength and comfort on this journey.


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  • sebailey6sebailey6

    Oh I am sooo sooo sorry about what you are going through and the decisions that you will have to make. We too had to make the heart wrenching decision to tfmr bc our baby was diagnosed with Trisomy 13. She was born 2 weeks ago tomorrow.

    So please, please, please do not hesitate to private message me. I will even give you my number if you want. I won't lie...the next few days and weeks will be the hardest you will go through. But lean on others when you need to please. I don't know where you live, but I was put in contact with a non-profit group to help us through our difficult time. Hopefully, you can find the same type of compassionate group where you live!

    Like I said, do not hesitate to private message me! Lots and lots of love and prayers you way as I type!!!

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  • Lavender&LilliesLavender&Lillies
    I am so sorry for your losses and that you have been faced with such tough decisions. I hope you will find support here during this difficult time.
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  • lmielocl1lmielocl1 member

    (((Hugs))) to you!  I am so sorry for what you are experiencing right now.  My thoughts and prayers are with you.  I am so sorry! 

    - Leslie

    ~ Mommy to Aaron, 21 months and to our angel, Ethan, born sleeping at 18w on 6/15/12.   

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  • HollyBee1022HollyBee1022 member
    Tiffany, I'm so, so sorry for what you're going through.  DH and I were faced with a similar choice and lost our daughter on June 22.  No one should have to make these decisions or imagine their lives without their lovely babies.  I know how you're feeling about wanting to move on, but it's okay to grieve. Please feel free to PM me if you want someone to talk to.  My thoughts are with you and your sweet baby.  ((HUGS))
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