I was set on the ergo, after hearing so many people rave about it. But now I'm second guessing it, for those who have it or bought something else instead...is the ergo back too short once the baby gets bigger? My guy is 8 months and a wiggler, so I need something that will hold him in. I am looking at the Beco too...but worried that might be too confined? All the pics look like little babies. Anyone with an older baby still do well in the beco? And if you went with beco, butterfly or gemini and what's the big difference?
As you can see I'm lost in the choices, thx in advance!