Sorry i have no other term for the 12/13 year olds lol
DF's little sister (we'll call her H) just turned 13 and i swear she is 13 going on 30 (as most 13 year olds are i imagine). Since weve been together for 5 years she looks up to me as sort of a big sister, and I'm the baby in my family so i have no idea how to kindly direct her/give advice when she asks for it so i'm looking for some help.
She is going through the rebel phase right now (dyed her hair bright red, tries to wear makeup, wears low cut shirts, tight jeans yada yada yada) and I just want to help her look better. What i mean by that is, show her how to wear makeup so it looks good on her not like she smothered a sharpie across her eyes, convince her you dont need to show your chest to look cute in your shirts and the biggest thing i think would help her is to get jeans that actually fit her. The ones she wears now are the skinny jeans but a size too small.
She has asked if i would take her school clothes shopping when the time comes (she lives with her dad and SM, they both cant get out to do a lot of shopping, ive taken her before with their permission) and my question is what is a good way to convince her to buy clothes that fit her body while still maintaining the "image" she wants to portray? She isnt that big, she is an average, healthy 13 year old yet constantly says shes so fat (so not true at all) I dont want to dress her in clothes she'll hate, but i dont want her underwear hanging out of her pants, and i want her shirts to at least cover her chest the way it should but i dont want to offend her. Any advice for when we go clothes shopping?