Who's still doing...IT?

Morganlsmith3

So I'm 33 weeks and my husband is suddenly a sex addict?!  I'm like wth?  Haha don't get me wrong I love to sleep with my husband...but it's not the easiest task anymore.  Haha.  I just find it odd because during my first pregnancy we NEVER...and I mean NEVER had sex the entire time I was pregnant. But this go around is different.  I actually turned him down last night because he wanted to go for a round 2.  I've never said no.  HaHa. 

I was just wondering who else was still getting after it and if you are what positions do you find most comfortable?  TIA and I hope you ladies are enjoying your day!

blindvictory

Sex. It's called sex. 

And yes, I'm still having sex. Had some last night, actually. I prefer it with DH behind me, and like, six pillows to lean on. It's starting to feel like a circus act with all the maneuvering around the belly, but there's no way I'm going to stop having sex now and then for at least another 6 weeks postpartum. I'm not a sex addict by any means, but I do like it and I would feel very deprived indeed to go that long without it.  

DFWIndian

jlk6:

Usually once or twice a week. Usually with me on top.

 This is us too.. I've turned him down a few times and he has turned me down too.

starrysmile18

blindvictory:

Sex. It's called sex. 

 

tma1685

Look at you lucky ladies. I don't even know what sex is anymore. Its been months. It sucks.

LILBIT1221

blindvictory:

Sex. It's called sex. 

And yes, I'm still having sex. Had some last night, actually. I prefer it with DH behind me, and like, six pillows to lean on. It's starting to feel like a circus act with all the maneuvering around the belly, but there's no way I'm going to stop having sex now and then for at least another 6 weeks postpartum. I'm not a sex addict by any means, but I do like it and I would feel very deprived indeed to go that long without it.  

you still gettin' it BV?

I wish we could do IT more, but we can never find the time. However, I gave my husband an amazing blow job last night to help relieve some of the stress he's got going on. When we do find the time, it's usually him behind me in a spooning position or me bent over something. You are all welcome for that stunning visual. I hate being on top because I feel gigantic right now & would rather not have that much focus on my roundnes.

jbBeans

I get turned down more often than the other way around (I wake up early and with Energy--MH does not!). But we're still good  

Spooning is most comfortable for me! 

blindvictory

LILBIT1221:

blindvictory:

Sex. It's called sex. 

And yes, I'm still having sex. Had some last night, actually. I prefer it with DH behind me, and like, six pillows to lean on. It's starting to feel like a circus act with all the maneuvering around the belly, but there's no way I'm going to stop having sex now and then for at least another 6 weeks postpartum. I'm not a sex addict by any means, but I do like it and I would feel very deprived indeed to go that long without it.  

you still gettin' it BV?

I wish we could do IT more, but we can never find the time. However, I gave my husband an amazing blow job last night to help relieve some of the stress he's got going on. When we do find the time, it's usually him behind me in a spooning position or me bent over something. You are all welcome for that stunning visual. I hate being on top because I feel gigantic right now & would rather not have that much focus on my roundnes.

 

Fo sho. My theme song: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lQlIhraqL7o 

ETA: Really, though, I don't know how often we're going to be doing anything these days because it's just physically challenging. And I had like, 3 or 4 BH afterwards last night, and the tiniest bit of spotting, which hasn't happened this entire pregnancy, so that kind of skurred me a little. But as my song says, "Doesn't matter, had sex."  

LILBIT1221

blindvictory:

LILBIT1221:

blindvictory:

Sex. It's called sex. 

And yes, I'm still having sex. Had some last night, actually. I prefer it with DH behind me, and like, six pillows to lean on. It's starting to feel like a circus act with all the maneuvering around the belly, but there's no way I'm going to stop having sex now and then for at least another 6 weeks postpartum. I'm not a sex addict by any means, but I do like it and I would feel very deprived indeed to go that long without it.  

you still gettin' it BV?

I wish we could do IT more, but we can never find the time. However, I gave my husband an amazing blow job last night to help relieve some of the stress he's got going on. When we do find the time, it's usually him behind me in a spooning position or me bent over something. You are all welcome for that stunning visual. I hate being on top because I feel gigantic right now & would rather not have that much focus on my roundnes.

 

Fo sho. My theme song: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lQlIhraqL7o 

LMAO, I love you so much.

linzeek44

Once a week, more or less. 

DH and I were in different states for about two months and the first time we had sex upon being reunited it was terribly uncomfortable. It's much easier if we have semi-regular sex (e.g., it's less terribly uncomfortable) and so we've been attempting once a week. 

I wouldn't say anything is super comfortable, but me on top or him behind me have worked out okay. 

JessAndTrav

Wait, we can say sex?

 

It's been a while. I've had no drive whatsoever, and now it would just hurt because of my SPD. 

 

Poor H.

 

MomiJerz

Yes about 3 times a week!

mcla22011

jlk6:

Usually once or twice a week. Usually with me on top.

 

My husband wishes it was once or twice a week! We're more like once every other week. Me on top is the best, always. 

BarefootContessa

Obviously not me, since I read your post and thought "IT...as in information technology"...

jocymama

jlk6:

Usually once or twice a week. Usually with me on top.

This except I noticed last night that me on top is a lot more awkward now so we will probably be transitioning to DH behind me.

stlmomma27

blindvictory:

LILBIT1221:

blindvictory:

Sex. It's called sex. 

And yes, I'm still having sex. Had some last night, actually. I prefer it with DH behind me, and like, six pillows to lean on. It's starting to feel like a circus act with all the maneuvering around the belly, but there's no way I'm going to stop having sex now and then for at least another 6 weeks postpartum. I'm not a sex addict by any means, but I do like it and I would feel very deprived indeed to go that long without it.  

you still gettin' it BV?

I wish we could do IT more, but we can never find the time. However, I gave my husband an amazing blow job last night to help relieve some of the stress he's got going on. When we do find the time, it's usually him behind me in a spooning position or me bent over something. You are all welcome for that stunning visual. I hate being on top because I feel gigantic right now & would rather not have that much focus on my roundnes.

 

Fo sho. My theme song: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lQlIhraqL7o 

ETA: Really, though, I don't know how often we're going to be doing anything these days because it's just physically challenging. And I had like, 3 or 4 BH afterwards last night, and the tiniest bit of spotting, which hasn't happened this entire pregnancy, so that kind of skurred me a little. But as my song says, "Doesn't matter, had sex."  

 

Lol...That is awesome! So funny! 

thebanich

No... DH tried the other night but I was mostly asleep. Can't really remember the last time. I just feel so not-sexy.

JessicaxLynn87

Can I just say that I am jealous of you bishes? I want sex, but cannot get past the discomfort it brings. My poor husband is dying. We tried last week on vacation, and I couldn't even reach orgasm! That has never been a problem for me. I guess I will just settle for sex dreams. 

tma1685

JessicaxLynn87:

Can I just say that I am jealous of you bishes? I want sex, but cannot get past the discomfort it brings. My poor husband is dying. We tried last week on vacation, and I couldn't even reach orgasm! That has never been a problem for me. I guess I will just settle for sex dreams. 

Well damn I can't even sleep long enough to get any dreams. I'm just a lonely whale in every which way lol

TaylorP5

tma1685:

Look at you lucky ladies. I don't even know what sex is anymore. Its been months. It sucks.

This! It is uncomfortable! But congrats to you ladies still getting it I'm jealous!

hmp1

DH got back from CA last night so I gave it up. I was pretty proud of myself.

Jumpin4joy

We are but the last time I really felt uncomfortable (on top.)  I think we will have to try it spooning and see if that is better.  Hmmm maybe Saturday morning.

jenndub

We're at about 2-3 times a week. I like to be on top but we switch it up a lot. Him behind with a ton of pillows under my belly, him behind while I'm standing and leaning on something, spooning, and occasionally we try missionary for a few minutes until I feel like I'm being crushed. This is our first baby together and he seems to be more turned on the bigger my belly gets.

miss50

people don't say D O G G I E - S T Y L E anymore?

LILBIT1221

JessicaxLynn87:

Can I just say that I am jealous of you bishes? I want sex, but cannot get past the discomfort it brings. My poor husband is dying. We tried last week on vacation, and I couldn't even reach orgasm! That has never been a problem for me. I guess I will just settle for sex dreams. 

It annoys me that I can have an orgasm in my sleep, but not during sex. ARGH

blindvictory

JessicaxLynn87:

Can I just say that I am jealous of you bishes? I want sex, but cannot get past the discomfort it brings. My poor husband is dying. We tried last week on vacation, and I couldn't even reach orgasm! That has never been a problem for me. I guess I will just settle for sex dreams. 

Do yourself a favor and invest in a cheap vibrator. I don't think I'd be able to orgasm at all if I didn't have one. To be blunt, I have never been able to reach orgasm just from penetration, and I can't reach around my belly very well to manually stimulate while DH does his thing.  

Gorillakisses15

We have sex every other day-ish. Funny enough I get terrible RLP being on top (since about 20 weeks), so I prop myself up on pillows and he is on top.

LILBIT1221

blindvictory:

JessicaxLynn87:

Can I just say that I am jealous of you bishes? I want sex, but cannot get past the discomfort it brings. My poor husband is dying. We tried last week on vacation, and I couldn't even reach orgasm! That has never been a problem for me. I guess I will just settle for sex dreams. 

Do yourself a favor and invest in a cheap vibrator. I don't think I'd be able to orgasm at all if I didn't have one. To be blunt, I have never been able to reach orgasm just from penetration, and I can't reach around my belly very well to manually stimulate while DH does his thing.  

i agree. oh, and thanks for the visual, BV.

mrsbhk22

MomiJerz:

Yes about 3 times a week!

Me too!  We pretty much never did when I was pregnant with the boys, but this time, I am all about it.  He's not complaining. 

Morganlsmith3

This cracked me up so much...with all of the visuals and my new favorite song.    With my first pregnancy we had SEX twice...the ENTIRE time.  But now...it's at least 1-2x a week. It seems the bigger I get the more he wants it. I'm not complaining because I love me some sex...next time I will add some pillows under my belly...I haven't been doing that. Whoops...

Blackrose1918

I try to about once a week, more for him/our relationship and the chemical benefits of it than anything.  The only way I've found to be comfortable so far is me on top.