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"Big O" question

I've been very nervous about having sex since finding out I was pregnant. I'm low-risk, but it took us 2.5 years to get where we are. 

Anyway, finally last night and the night before, I decided to go for it. However, I noticed the orgasm feels plain bizarre now. I cramp a bit afterward, not painful or anything, just like tightness. No spotting or anything, but it just feels funny.

Honestly, it's turning me off from the whole thing (sorry DH!, I tried!). Anyone else dealing w/ this or know anything about it? I've been looking in all my books, but there's not much information about that.

TIA 

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    With DD I got horrible cramping after O, like it doubled me over in pain. So I avoided sex, but was still having occasional "sleepgasms," making me wake up with painful cramping in the night convinced I was miscarrying.

    BFP1: DD1 born April 2011 at 34w1d via unplanned c/s due to HELLP, DVT 1 week PP
    BFP2: 3/18/12, blighted ovum, natural m/c @ 7w4d
    BFP3: DD2 born Feb 2013 at 38w4d via unplanned RCS due to uterine dehiscence

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    Definitely normal.  The cramping was worse for me at first, but it seems to have gotten better in the last couple weeks.  Also, if you do have a tiny bit of spotting after sex, it is normal as well. 
    11/2010 Diagnosed with PCOS 
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    imageAllycat11:
    Definitely normal.  The cramping was worse for me at first, but it seems to have gotten better in the last couple weeks.  Also, if you do have a tiny bit of spotting after sex, it is normal as well. 

    All of this for me too  I now have hardly any cramping or tightness after. I know it is freaky at first and I spoke to my dr about it when it started happening. She assured me it's completely normal.  

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    Completely normal. 
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    imagekelly321:
    With DD I got horrible cramping after O, like it doubled me over in pain. So I avoided sex, but was still having occasional "sleepgasms," making me wake up with painful cramping in the night convinced I was miscarrying.

    Oh gosh, the sleepgasms! I've had those too. That's what actually scares me more than sex. I guess it's our bodies' way of saying we need some... 

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    No worries! The same thing has been happening to me too - although I find that now it doesn't happen every single time I have an orgasm so that's good. It definitely is off putting at first though, but I think after some time you just get over it! ;-)

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    It's definitely normal but I would ask your doctor. If you aren't high risk you should be fine. I've started to have to pee reallllly bad after sex in addition to cramping. 

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    Jacob, 1/14/13
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