Not feelin "it"

monita5133

Well I am almost 20 weeks and my husband is a horny toad. Unfortunately I am just not in the mood EVER!! I feel bad but it's just not a big priority to me. Am I the only that feels like this?

ktbee33

I was like this right at the end of my first tri and caved one right even though I wasn't super into it at first.  Best sex ever.  I had no idea what the wonders of pregnant sex were.  Now have reversed roles in our house haha (sorry if that was tmi).  

JandKHall

The H and I were everyday or every other day until week 14 or so then everything stopped. I wasn't feeling it at all and certainly didn't want to be touched. But then week 23 hit and it's like hello hormones I've missed you. We are both very happy campers again, thank God! LOL It'll get better I promise you both just have to be patient with it. 

monita5133

Thank you for the reassurance, I just can't even bare to think about having sex or even beting touched. Hopefully I will get my drive back soon. I know he is not a happy camper right now. He says I just want my old wife back, poor guy.

gingerbrood

i am horribly uncomfortable and exhausted but still majorly attracted to dh. i told him i love him, but the best i can offer is meaningful but boring sex whenever i happen to not feel like my pelvis is going to fall off from the pain. he's super understanding, i'm just waiting for december to roll around so i can be HUGE BELLY free for our anniversary.

MinaE01

Go see Magic Mike. That should help. I can vouch.

LadyNikon

I don't feel care for it right now.  I cave in for his sake and hate it every time. I call it taking one for the team and try to enjoy it for his benefit but I just can't.  I don't like the cramping afterwards, I don't like the cramping during.. it kinda sucks because during 2nd and third tri with DD I coiuldn't keep my hands off of him.  So this is just another switch in the singleton , multiple pregnancy.

MidwestSeashell

use your hands, sis. not the same, i know, but it can still be fun

angelsmile

Luckily, DH is stationed elsewhere for the rest of my pregnancy, or I'd have to make excuses all the time.  As of right this second, I feel like I could never have sex again and be completely happy.  You are not the only one.

TiaS16

MinaE01:

Go see Magic Mike. That should help. I can vouch.

 

Now that, is awesome...lmao 

tableforfourplease

I'm not feelin' it either! At the beginning of the second tri I was totally for it and it felt AH-MAZE-ING! but now, not so much.. I feel bad for DH and "take one for the team" every once and a while, which hurts :c I hope it gets better soon for the both of us!