Well, lately I've been stressing myself out about feeling "ready" for these LOs. I have always wanted to have lots of kids but it took me a while to adjust to actually being pregnant. (I think because we had only been married for 6 months). Then, it took me awhile to adjust to the idea of twins! My expectations for what our situation would look like were completely thrown for a loop.
In addition, DH is working overseas and trying to get a housing situation settled for us, while I have been living out of a suitcase at my mom's for the past couple of months. I'm not necessarily a control-freak, but I definitely like to know ahead of time what to expect, etc. As a FTM my mind is just blown by the thought of having two babies, breastfeeding, moving my family overseas (UK), staying at home with the babies in a new place, etc.
DH is totally a "go with the flow" kind of person. He just asked what I would need in order to feel ready and to do it. But it's not that easy! I'm just feeling a little overwhelmed and lost. We have started buying baby gear, but that's just "stuff" and doesn't help me feel any more competent as a MoM to be. Basically, I'm just freaking out. Any other FTMs feel the same way? What are you doing to make yourself feel better?