Well I'm on day 4 of a brand new cycle. I'm trying really hard to be positive but it's tough. I know we haven't been trying very long, but I'm so nervous about my age (38). We have decided to really go for it this month and DTD every other day leading up to ovulation with an extra go around ovulation time. A lot of things have to go right for this to happen... First and foremost, we both have to stay healthy! This is easier said than done as my 19 month old daughter is in daycare and we're all sick every 3 weeks or so it seems. We missed some prime time last month because Dh got whatever DD had. Second, I don't want DH to burn out...I think I will be fine but am more worried about him, especially since he will know we are "trying". Sometimes he gets nervous and we all know what that can lead to. Well..I probably have a good 2 weeks or so as I tend to ovulate between days 17-20. So I'm trying to get myself psyched up for it (as opposed to psyched out lol).