If your ex pays all he is supposed to pay in child support, do you honestly use it all for the kid(s)?
My STBXH thinks what he's giving me is too much. Honestly, I think it might be too. So he wants me to account for everything I spend for the kids. If he's getting royally screwed money-wise (which REALLY will affect his mood and cooperation for years to come), then I don't want to do that. But I also know the state came up with that figure for a reason and I don't want to screw myself.