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Jealousy

KatrinaR08KatrinaR08
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So I am 15 weeks pregnant, and I have been feeling great! Some crazy mood swings and a couple new aches and pains but I really can't complain.

Something that has been bothering me for a few weeks now though, jealousy...

My husband is the most supportive and loving man, I just feel like all these women are trying to get him. He is military so has to stay over night at work quite a bit, that makes my head spin. His exs are always popping in my head. It really is making me nuts! The sane person in me knows I have nothing to worry about but this nagging in my head is making me wonder if this is normal or if I really am nuts!?

 Has any one else experienced anything like this??

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Re: Jealousy

  • Tennis ChickTennis Chick member
    I personally can not relate. 

    Has he ever given you a reason to NOT trust him? Does he still have a friendship with his ex's or something? If the answer is no, you need to let it go. Getting flustered about something that isn't there is not only going to stress you out but could lead to an argument between you and your H. 

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  • KatrinaR08KatrinaR08
    We have had our issues, but nothing huge and nothing we couldn't talk over. He is "friends" with some exs but never really talks to them anymore. You are right though, this is something that is not worth getting fustrated and worried about.
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  • kmo76kmo76
    I have never ever in my relationship with my husband been jealous until recently.  I am chalking it up to hormones, and realizing that I am doing my best to ignore it.  He has given me no reason to feel this way, so I am doing my best to talk myself out of it when it happens.
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  • KatrinaR08KatrinaR08

    Thanks, that makes me feel a little better. I am trying to ignore it. Today was kind of a hard day to start with so I think it has jsut triggered this too. I tried talking to my husband about it too but he is pretty clueless sense he knows (and I know) he hasn't done anything to make me worry.

    Ughh hormones!!!

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  • jamdv3jamdv3
    I'm having a hard time understanding exactly what it is you're jealous about. 
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  • KatrinaR08KatrinaR08
    It was more in general than anything. But, I talked to my husband about it and he was compeletly understanding... unlike some people I guess. And things are better than ever! :)
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