TTC after 35
7 dpo/1 ww
I got through the first week of my 2ww with no problem - I hardly even thought about it with the other things on my mind. I'm pretty anxious to get through this second week, though. I don't have a lot of hope, though.
I was trying to explain to H the sense of urgency I felt, and I told him that I feel like my eggs are rotting inside of me. Instead of being comforting, he decided to go for funny, and started making jokes about pickled eggs. I was not amused. He stopped when I started crying.
"Don't look back, you can never look back." - Don Henley
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Re: 7 dpo/1 ww
I'm right behind you at 5dpiui. One week down, one to go!
Your DH probably felt like a big heel...most men often think they are being silly and not hurtful....alot is hurtful in our present state of mind. Sorry you got upset.
4DPO here....waiting patiently so far. That will change about 10DPO.
I bet your DH thought a little joke would lighten your mood - I am sure he didn't mean to hurt you. I know he learned a lessson.
I'm 7dp2dt and I like you don't have a lot of hope and the first week has gone okay for me - I think because I don't expect a lot - I try to keep my mind on other things and not obsess about what could or couldn't be but I have to admit as the days go by it's getting tougher and tougher to distract myself with other things. I'm sorry your H made a comment that made you feel bad - I'm willing to bet he won't make that same mistake again! Hope your 2nd week of wait and mine goes by really quick
Me 38 MH 41 - TTC since June 2010 - dx with Severe MFI. Straight to IVF with ICSI. IVF #1 - ER 06/13/12 - 9 Eggs Retrieved - 4 ICSI'd - only 2 fert. 06/15/12 - 2DT - 3 cell & 6 cell with fragmentation. Beta 06/29/12 - IVF #1 = BFN. 07/20/12 - WTF Appt -Told by our RE to quit IVF. Second Opinion from RE is good. IVF#2 - November 2012. Estradiol Pills Started 11/6. Stims start 11/16. ER 11/26 - 7 eggs retrieved - all mature. 4 fertilized with ICSI. ET 11/29 Transferred 3 embryos. Beta is 12/10. 1st Beta 81 2nd Beta 160 and 3rd beta 360!!! First U/S 12/21/12 - We saw one beautiful gest. sac. 2nd U/S is 01/04/2013 - H/B 183 02/05/13 - NT Scan - everything looks good and IT'S A BOY! Aiden was born 08/20/2013.
IVF #2 is in progress. ER was 05/12/14 - 11 eggs retrieved, 8 fertilized with ICSI. ET was 05/15/14 - we transferred 3 embryos as we did on the cycle my son was conceived. We were able to freeze 3 embryos. Beta is scheduled for 05/26/14. 1st beta - 111. 2nd beta - 159 didn't double
3rd beta Friday 5/30) - not a lot of hope left. Beta # 3 is 247 - probably ectopic. Beta # 4 is 813 - possibly vanishing multiple sydrome? 06/05/14 - 5w4days - first U/S - we see a gestational sac and yolk - still have hope! 06/17/14 - 7w1day - U/S and saw and heard the heartbeat - Finally! 06/27/14 - 8w4days - Baby and heartbeat look and sound great 
EDD 02/01/14 and It's a boy!
"Everything will be okay in the end. If it's not okay, it's not the end."