TTC after 35

Just shoot me now, please!

I had a post about 4 months ago that one of my co-workers daughters was KU. She is single, on state assitance, unemployed and the list goes on and on......Well she just came bursting into my office waving around an ultrasound pic of her baby boy, in my face....literally. She is now going throughout the building telling and showing everyone.....I was left speechless.  :(

And she is still SMOKING!!! I wanted to knock her block off!

I want my BFP.

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Re: Just shoot me now, please!

  • I hear ya - the girl you described could be my cousin who's boy just turned 1.  So I got to see the ultrasound pic, help plan the baby shower, read about every pregnancy symptom on facebook, and have the baby passed around at every family event followed by every relative asking when I was gonna have one.  Some people just don't get it.

    But when my BFP comes I know that my LO will have the best home waiting for them with two parents & a bright future.   And when BFPs happen to people I know deserve them, I share in their joy and look to it for hope for those of us waiting for ours. Hang in there!!!

    Me 39 & suspected PCOS, DH 42. Went off BCP when we got married in 11/11, seriously TTC since 3/12.  Six cycles of clomid = BFNs.  Suspected endometriosis & HSG showed both tubes blocked.  Sept 2013 IVF 5D transfer of two perfect embryos = BFN.  Started acupuncture and taking time off to drop some pounds & get healthier before FET in April 2014.
  • What an a-hole. 

    Hope your day gets better.  Hope you get your BFP.




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  • It's people like your coworker's daughter that inspired my back-up plan to quit my job, go on state assistance, and become an alcoholic or meth addict in order to et pregnant.

    What a tool. Just think-- that baby is going to be colicky, in nicotine withdrawal, etc. and that girl is going to learn very quickly how much responsibility a child is. 

    And when you get your BFP, you are going to be an AWESOME mom from the very first moment!


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    DD born 6/1/2013 after 15 months of TTC with one loss.    
    TTC #2: BFP 4/22 but stalled growth and no HB at 9w3d on 5/30        

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  • Don't even get me started on the Smoking part!  And I hope she gets a nasty paper cut from that ultrasound pic.  The Universe is so screwed up!
    Me: 40 Dh: 41, TTC since August 2009, began Acupuncture and Herbs Sept 2011, began Temping and Charting Nov 2011. image
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    Don't even get me started on the Smoking part!  And I hope she gets a nasty paper cut from that ultrasound pic.  The Universe is so screwed up!

    Love this!!!

    BFP on IVF #2 6/29/2012. Beta #1 7/3 = 522; Beta #2 = 1180; Beta #3 = 6491 image BabyFruit Ticker
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