Hmmm...not exactly ttc but..

Rachel5782

Not exactly preventing it either.  DH and I originally wanted to wait til the fall to go off bc, but this month I just kinda posed the question if he would like to go off bc and just let things happen as they may.  I wasn't expecting DH to be for it, but he was!  We both recognize that we may get KU immediately since that's what happened last time, but it could also take longer.  We're both so nonchalant about it this time around.  Last time I was a little psycho about conceiving but now I'm just so relaxed about it.  This is strange to me because we're both so calculated and always planning our next move.  Anyone else feeling like this?

ishka338

We are ttc, but I'm definitely more laid back this time.  I think part of it is that I have M to keep my mind on something else.  Before I had him, all I wanted was a baby, and now I think I'd be okay if he was an only child if, God forbid, I couldn't get pregnant again.  Good luck to you guys!

M&M227

We've been talking about it.  We would both love to have another LO right now but really can't afford it.  Last month we decided to go off BC but use other protection this month and think about.  We decided to wait longer, and possibly get a puppy....    Not sure how we decided that a puppy was good but a baby wasn't, lol.

Rachel5782

ishka338:

We are ttc, but I'm definitely more laid back this time.  I think part of it is that I have M to keep my mind on something else.  Before I had him, all I wanted was a baby, and now I think I'd be okay if he was an only child if, God forbid, I couldn't get pregnant again.  Good luck to you guys!

You are so right. I think you hit the nail on the head.   

maddiemoon43

M&M227:

We've been talking about it.  We would both love to have another LO right now but really can't afford it.  Last month we decided to go off BC but use other protection this month and think about.  We decided to wait longer, and possibly get a puppy....    Not sure how we decided that a puppy was good but a baby wasn't, lol.

Have a baby - much easier!  :P

susieandmarty

I think I am going off BCP on Sunday of this week.  DH is on board and I cant wait.  I would love to be more relaxed about it - i was pretty crazy, but I think I am going to chart this time too.  I am not sure why, but I did not mind the charting - I just hope that if it does not happen immediately, I am ok with that too - last time I started getting super nervous

helenejr

I'm more stressed about it this time because i want them close in age..... C happened first time and this time i know it won't happen (and it didn''t) that quickly - so i am more anxious about why it isn't as easy this time..... I HATE that i want to be pregnant so badly... but i just can't help but think about it