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speaking of anniversaries ...

... DH and BMs what would have been anniversary was yesterday and YES she texted him about it .... I wish I could make this up .... crazy cakes

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Re: speaking of anniversaries ...

  • imagetifanico:

    Are you sure your DH is not Dmds ex? lol 

     

    haha I already checked into that but none of the details match up so I think I am "safe"

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  • YES she texted him about it ....

    Someone's been drinking the crazy juice.

  • What pray tell, did this text say??

    Pretty please tell us.

  • imageHopeforthebest:

    What pray tell, did this text say??

    Pretty please tell us.

    No doubt. DH's and BM's anniversary is kind of hard to ignore, so it is something that tends to get mentioned. It's usually kind of a crappy day. But it's only mentioned between us.
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  • imagewendilea:
    That's so bizarre.  I would have been married for 22 years back in January, and the only date I thought about was the anniversary of the divorce, which is January 2.  It was more of a "I have been free of the Dink for 7 years!  Woohoo!" moment, and I certainly didn't call him about it. 

    If I were in that situation I too would "celebrate" the date of "freedom" instead. I just think she needs to let go. Move on woman. Its been years... 

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  • imageHopeforthebest:

    What pray tell, did this text say??

    Pretty please tell us.

     

    "happy what would have been 8 years of MARRIAGE to US. I gave you a SON! What did SHE give you????? A BMW?! thats not more than a CHILD!!!"

     

    oh and DHs car was only a recent purchase so comparing that to an almost 9yr old child is ... interesting .... 

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  • image*HiS ChAmAoLe GiRL*:
    imageHopeforthebest:

    What pray tell, did this text say??

    Pretty please tell us.

     

    "happy what would have been 8 years of MARRIAGE to US. I gave you a SON! What did SHE give you????? A BMW?! thats not more than a CHILD!!!"

     

    oh and DHs car was only a recent purchase so comparing that to an almost 9yr old child is ... interesting .... 

    wow.. And if I'm not mistaken I believe your husband is gainfully employed by Uncle Sam so its not like you're his sugar mama. She's obsessed with the car isn't she? I remember other comments about it.
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  • imageKaeldrasmommy:
    imageHopeforthebest:

    What pray tell, did this text say??

    Pretty please tell us.

    No doubt. DH's and BM's anniversary is kind of hard to ignore, so it is something that tends to get mentioned. It's usually kind of a crappy day. But it's only mentioned between us.

    The date also has another meaning for me (BM and DH unrelated) so I always know when it comes up.

    One year I was looking at the CO, which was a part of the divorce decree, I noticed that the typed marriage date was crossed out and hand written in. Apparently DH forgot that his marriage date was the 6th and had his lawyer write in the 5th. BM was NOT happy. 

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  • image*HiS ChAmAoLe GiRL*:
    imageHopeforthebest:

    What pray tell, did this text say??

    Pretty please tell us.

     

    "happy what would have been 8 years of MARRIAGE to US. I gave you a SON! What did SHE give you????? A BMW?! thats not more than a CHILD!!!"

     

    oh and DHs car was only a recent purchase so comparing that to an almost 9yr old child is ... interesting .... 

    LOL, this is so what I would have said to my ex if I did text him.  Me and your BM could totally be friends. 

    For the record I think it bugged ex that I didn't mention it.  He knew that me and BF stayed at a B&B last night because he dropped our son off there this morning.  We were staying there for work reasons.  Anyhow, when he dropped off our son he commented that he was glad his money was paying for me to have overnight vacations and my new car.  Oh boy, someone is bitter...Maybe things with his little youngster plastic girlfriend aren't working out so nicely afterall.

  • imagekarleegirl:
    image*HiS ChAmAoLe GiRL*:
    imageHopeforthebest:

    What pray tell, did this text say??

    Pretty please tell us.

     

    "happy what would have been 8 years of MARRIAGE to US. I gave you a SON! What did SHE give you????? A BMW?! thats not more than a CHILD!!!"

     

    oh and DHs car was only a recent purchase so comparing that to an almost 9yr old child is ... interesting .... 

    wow.. And if I'm not mistaken I believe your husband is gainfully employed by Uncle Sam so its not like you're his sugar mama. She's obsessed with the car isn't she? I remember other comments about it.

     Yes DH and I are in the military and I have heard her say things to SS about that on numerous occasions. I hate to stereotype but where my husband is from I have seen/heard that people have the mind frame of military = BIG $. She has told SS that if he wants anything "DH and SM are rich bc they are in the military" and to ask us for stuff.

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  • imagekarleegirl:
    image*HiS ChAmAoLe GiRL*:
    imageHopeforthebest:

    What pray tell, did this text say??

    Pretty please tell us.

     

    "happy what would have been 8 years of MARRIAGE to US. I gave you a SON! What did SHE give you????? A BMW?! thats not more than a CHILD!!!"

     

    oh and DHs car was only a recent purchase so comparing that to an almost 9yr old child is ... interesting .... 

    wow.. And if I'm not mistaken I believe your husband is gainfully employed by Uncle Sam so its not like you're his sugar mama. She's obsessed with the car isn't she? I remember other comments about it.

    Yes she has mentioned to SS that DH and I have BMWs bc we are "show offs" and even asked SS to find out how much we pay for our vehicles. Oh and FTR DH worked hard for his car and as long as the bills are paid, his son is taken care of and we have money in savings idc what he does with whats leftover.

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  • imagedmndsr4eva:
    image*HiS ChAmAoLe GiRL*:
    imageHopeforthebest:

    What pray tell, did this text say??

    Pretty please tell us.

     

    "happy what would have been 8 years of MARRIAGE to US. I gave you a SON! What did SHE give you????? A BMW?! thats not more than a CHILD!!!"

     

    oh and DHs car was only a recent purchase so comparing that to an almost 9yr old child is ... interesting .... 

    LOL, this is so what I would have said to my ex if I did text him.  Me and your BM could totally be friends. I totally agree ....


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  • imagetifanico:
    Wow lol, I thought it was going to be just a "reminder". 

    It was her way of reminding thats for sure. 

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  • bebe11bebe11 member
    imagedmndsr4eva:
    image*HiS ChAmAoLe GiRL*:
    imageHopeforthebest:

    What pray tell, did this text say??

    Pretty please tell us.

     

    "happy what would have been 8 years of MARRIAGE to US. I gave you a SON! What did SHE give you????? A BMW?! thats not more than a CHILD!!!"

     

    oh and DHs car was only a recent purchase so comparing that to an almost 9yr old child is ... interesting .... 

    LOL, this is so what I would have said to my ex if I did text him.  Me and your BM could totally be friends. 

    For the record I think it bugged ex that I didn't mention it.  He knew that me and BF stayed at a B&B last night because he dropped our son off there this morning.  We were staying there for work reasons.  Anyhow, when he dropped off our son he commented that he was glad his money was paying for me to have overnight vacations and my new car.  Oh boy, someone is bitter...Maybe things with his little youngster plastic girlfriend aren't working out so nicely afterall.

    LOL....  Well, I am glad that you didn't text him!

    Why do you call her plastic?  I am sure I missed some of your older posts.

     

  • imagedmndsr4eva:
    image*HiS ChAmAoLe GiRL*:
    imageHopeforthebest:

    What pray tell, did this text say??

    Pretty please tell us.

     

    "happy what would have been 8 years of MARRIAGE to US. I gave you a SON! What did SHE give you????? A BMW?! thats not more than a CHILD!!!"

     

    oh and DHs car was only a recent purchase so comparing that to an almost 9yr old child is ... interesting .... 

    LOL, this is so what I would have said to my ex if I did text him.  Me and your BM could totally be friends. 

    For the record I think it bugged ex that I didn't mention it.  He knew that me and BF stayed at a B&B last night because he dropped our son off there this morning.  We were staying there for work reasons.  Anyhow, when he dropped off our son he commented that he was glad his money was paying for me to have overnight vacations and my new car.  Oh boy, someone is bitter...Maybe things with his little youngster plastic girlfriend aren't working out so nicely afterall.

    And this is why we think you're nuts.

    What a message, that's priceless! Jealous and insecure much?!

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  • imagetifanico:
    imageKaeldrasmommy:
    imagedmndsr4eva:
    image*HiS ChAmAoLe GiRL*:
    imageHopeforthebest:

    What pray tell, did this text say??

    Pretty please tell us.

     

    "happy what would have been 8 years of MARRIAGE to US. I gave you a SON! What did SHE give you????? A BMW?! thats not more than a CHILD!!!"

     

    oh and DHs car was only a recent purchase so comparing that to an almost 9yr old child is ... interesting .... 

    LOL, this is so what I would have said to my ex if I did text him.  Me and your BM could totally be friends. 

    For the record I think it bugged ex that I didn't mention it.  He knew that me and BF stayed at a B&B last night because he dropped our son off there this morning.  We were staying there for work reasons.  Anyhow, when he dropped off our son he commented that he was glad his money was paying for me to have overnight vacations and my new car.  Oh boy, someone is bitter...Maybe things with his little youngster plastic girlfriend aren't working out so nicely afterall.

    And this is why we think you're nuts.

    What a message, that's priceless! Jealous and insecure much?!

     Didn't you send your ex a pic of your BFs PENIS to make him feel bad? This is what happens when klassy meets crazy. 

    You have got to be talking to her. Seriously? Who does that?
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  • imageKaeldrasmommy:
    imagedmndsr4eva:
    image*HiS ChAmAoLe GiRL*:
    imageHopeforthebest:

    What pray tell, did this text say??

    Pretty please tell us.

     

    "happy what would have been 8 years of MARRIAGE to US. I gave you a SON! What did SHE give you????? A BMW?! thats not more than a CHILD!!!"

     

    oh and DHs car was only a recent purchase so comparing that to an almost 9yr old child is ... interesting .... 

    LOL, this is so what I would have said to my ex if I did text him.  Me and your BM could totally be friends. 

    For the record I think it bugged ex that I didn't mention it.  He knew that me and BF stayed at a B&B last night because he dropped our son off there this morning.  We were staying there for work reasons.  Anyhow, when he dropped off our son he commented that he was glad his money was paying for me to have overnight vacations and my new car.  Oh boy, someone is bitter...Maybe things with his little youngster plastic girlfriend aren't working out so nicely afterall.

    And this is why we think you're nuts.

    What a message, that's priceless! Jealous and insecure much?!

    this is why they would get along so well

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  • imagetifanico:
    imageKaeldrasmommy:
    imagedmndsr4eva:
    image*HiS ChAmAoLe GiRL*:
    imageHopeforthebest:

    What pray tell, did this text say??

    Pretty please tell us.

     

    "happy what would have been 8 years of MARRIAGE to US. I gave you a SON! What did SHE give you????? A BMW?! thats not more than a CHILD!!!"

     

    oh and DHs car was only a recent purchase so comparing that to an almost 9yr old child is ... interesting .... 

    LOL, this is so what I would have said to my ex if I did text him.  Me and your BM could totally be friends. 

    For the record I think it bugged ex that I didn't mention it.  He knew that me and BF stayed at a B&B last night because he dropped our son off there this morning.  We were staying there for work reasons.  Anyhow, when he dropped off our son he commented that he was glad his money was paying for me to have overnight vacations and my new car.  Oh boy, someone is bitter...Maybe things with his little youngster plastic girlfriend aren't working out so nicely afterall.

    And this is why we think you're nuts.

    What a message, that's priceless! Jealous and insecure much?!

     Didn't you send your ex a pic of your BFs PENIS to make him feel bad? This is what happens when klassy meets crazy. 

    That was NOT me.  This is the second time someone has asked and last time other ppl mentioned who that was.

  • imagebebe11:
    imagedmndsr4eva:
    image*HiS ChAmAoLe GiRL*:
    imageHopeforthebest:

    What pray tell, did this text say??

    Pretty please tell us.

     

    "happy what would have been 8 years of MARRIAGE to US. I gave you a SON! What did SHE give you????? A BMW?! thats not more than a CHILD!!!"

     

    oh and DHs car was only a recent purchase so comparing that to an almost 9yr old child is ... interesting .... 

    LOL, this is so what I would have said to my ex if I did text him.  Me and your BM could totally be friends. 

    For the record I think it bugged ex that I didn't mention it.  He knew that me and BF stayed at a B&B last night because he dropped our son off there this morning.  We were staying there for work reasons.  Anyhow, when he dropped off our son he commented that he was glad his money was paying for me to have overnight vacations and my new car.  Oh boy, someone is bitter...Maybe things with his little youngster plastic girlfriend aren't working out so nicely afterall.

    LOL....  Well, I am glad that you didn't text him!

    Why do you call her plastic?  I am sure I missed some of your older posts.

    I've heard from a bunch of people that she had a nose and boob job.  Which I guess really isn't a big deal but of course I like to point it out.  I saw a picture of her on facebook with a tshirt on and they did look pretty fake.  Same thing with her nose I saw an old pic of her where her nose looked a lot bigger.

  • imagedmndsr4eva:
    image*HiS ChAmAoLe GiRL*:
    imageHopeforthebest:

    What pray tell, did this text say??

    Pretty please tell us.

     

    "happy what would have been 8 years of MARRIAGE to US. I gave you a SON! What did SHE give you????? A BMW?! thats not more than a CHILD!!!"

     

    oh and DHs car was only a recent purchase so comparing that to an almost 9yr old child is ... interesting .... 

    LOL, this is so what I would have said to my ex if I did text him.  Me and your BM could totally be friends. 

    For the record I think it bugged ex that I didn't mention it.  He knew that me and BF stayed at a B&B last night because he dropped our son off there this morning.  We were staying there for work reasons.  Anyhow, when he dropped off our son he commented that he was glad his money was paying for me to have overnight vacations and my new car.  Oh boy, someone is bitter...Maybe things with his little youngster plastic girlfriend aren't working out so nicely afterall.

    He is bitchy about having to pay you money so he must be having trouble with his girlfriend? I think your brain doesn't work since that makes no sense. Things with YOU aren't working out so well, that's why he is mad at YOU....because you're a stage 5 clinger psychopath. I think you're going to go Fatal Attraction on your ex. Hope they don't have rabbits at their place.
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  • Wow. I can't believe how crazy some people are!!

    When my XH sent me flowers in an anniversary after we divorced, I refused then and had them sent to HIM. When he text me "happy anniversary" I responded with, "thank you for reminding me what I'm not missing". People need to grow up, let go and move on.  

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    imagejobalchak:

    Wow. I can't believe how crazy some people are!!

    When my XH sent me flowers in an anniversary after we divorced, I refused then and had them sent to HIM. When he text me "happy anniversary" I responded with, "thank you for reminding me what I'm not missing". People need to grow up, let go and move on.  

    Haha that is great!

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  • imagejobalchak:

    Wow. I can't believe how crazy some people are!!

    When my XH sent me flowers in an anniversary after we divorced, I refused then and had them sent to HIM. When he text me "happy anniversary" I responded with, "thank you for reminding me what I'm not missing". People need to grow up, let go and move on.  

    Haha, I know I've said it before, but I really think I love you. That's great.

    Curly Q, I think you may have given me reason to smile for the rest of the day.

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  • imagejobalchak:

    Wow. I can't believe how crazy some people are!!

    When my XH sent me flowers in an anniversary after we divorced, I refused then and had them sent to HIM. When he text me "happy anniversary" I responded with, "thank you for reminding me what I'm not missing". People need to grow up, let go and move on.  

    haha maybe thats how DH should have responded. FTR he didnt respond but that would have been the way to go. 

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  • Omg, that woman is nuts!


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  • imageKaeldrasmommy:
    imagejobalchak:

    Wow. I can't believe how crazy some people are!!

    When my XH sent me flowers in an anniversary after we divorced, I refused then and had them sent to HIM. When he text me "happy anniversary" I responded with, "thank you for reminding me what I'm not missing". People need to grow up, let go and move on.  

    Haha, I know I've said it before, but I really think I love you. That's great.

    Curly Q, I think you may have given me reason to smile for the rest of the day.

    Lol yay! I'm usually not this mean but some people make me snap.
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    imagekarleegirl:
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    imageHopeforthebest:

    What pray tell, did this text say??

    Pretty please tell us.

     

    "happy what would have been 8 years of MARRIAGE to US. I gave you a SON! What did SHE give you????? A BMW?! thats not more than a CHILD!!!"

     

    oh and DHs car was only a recent purchase so comparing that to an almost 9yr old child is ... interesting .... 

    wow.. And if I'm not mistaken I believe your husband is gainfully employed by Uncle Sam so its not like you're his sugar mama. She's obsessed with the car isn't she? I remember other comments about it.

    Yes she has mentioned to SS that DH and I have BMWs bc we are "show offs" and even asked SS to find out how much we pay for our vehicles. Oh and FTR DH worked hard for his car and as long as the bills are paid, his son is taken care of and we have money in savings idc what he does with whats leftover.

    as long as cs is paid I could cate less what kind of car ds1's bd has. It's none of my business. Your ss bm has got some serious issues. I don't automatically assume b/c you're military you're loaded either. I actually assume you don't get paid enough for your risk. That's an interesting assumption. ** but I'm an RN and people think I make sooo much. Dh is in law enforcement and his buddies act like I'm his sugar mama. LOl
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  • imagewendilea:
    Dmnds, I can't believe you had your ex drop your son off at a B & B you were staying at with your current BF.  You seriously have issues, need to grow up, and spend thousands on therapy.  Does your new BF realize you're just with him in a pathetic attempt to either a) keep yourself busy until ex realizes the "error of his ways" and comes crawling back to you or b) make ex jealous so he will realize the "error of his ways" and come back to you??  I feel sorry for all the men in your life.

    Yea I was thinking this too Wendi.  Really KLASSY of her.

  • Jobalchak 

    You and I have too much in common!

    My ex sent me a replica of my wedding bouquet the Valentine's after I filed for divorce from his cheating, lying self.

    They were on my doorstep when I got home. I promptly drove them to the local children's hospital and asked the receptionist to take them to someone that they would make really happy. SOME good should've come from that mess!

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    Jobalchak 

    You and I have too much in common!

    My ex sent me a replica of my wedding bouquet the Valentine's after I filed for divorce from his cheating, lying self.

    They were on my doorstep when I got home. I promptly drove them to the local children's hospital and asked the receptionist to take them to someone that they would make really happy. SOME good should've come from that mess!

    You handled your "rememberance" flowers much better and far more mature than I did!!  I had them sent back to him to make a point that I didn't want his trip down memory lane, and taking them to a hospital would have been a much better choice.  I'll keep that in mind for next time  Wink

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