... DH and BMs what would have been anniversary was yesterday and YES she texted him about it .... I wish I could make this up .... crazy cakes
BFP #1 11/07/2012 EDD 07/09/2013 M/C 11/22/2012
BFP #2 02/05/2013 EDD 09/19/2013
Arrived via c-section 09/27/2013
Re: speaking of anniversaries ...
haha I already checked into that but none of the details match up so I think I am "safe"
BFP #1 11/07/2012 EDD 07/09/2013 M/C 11/22/2012
BFP #2 02/05/2013 EDD 09/19/2013 Arrived via c-section 09/27/2013
YES she texted him about it ....
Someone's been drinking the crazy juice.
What pray tell, did this text say??
Pretty please tell us.
If I were in that situation I too would "celebrate" the date of "freedom" instead. I just think she needs to let go. Move on woman. Its been years...
BFP #1 11/07/2012 EDD 07/09/2013 M/C 11/22/2012
BFP #2 02/05/2013 EDD 09/19/2013 Arrived via c-section 09/27/2013
"happy what would have been 8 years of MARRIAGE to US. I gave you a SON! What did SHE give you????? A BMW?! thats not more than a CHILD!!!"
oh and DHs car was only a recent purchase so comparing that to an almost 9yr old child is ... interesting ....
BFP #1 11/07/2012 EDD 07/09/2013 M/C 11/22/2012
BFP #2 02/05/2013 EDD 09/19/2013 Arrived via c-section 09/27/2013
The date also has another meaning for me (BM and DH unrelated) so I always know when it comes up.
One year I was looking at the CO, which was a part of the divorce decree, I noticed that the typed marriage date was crossed out and hand written in. Apparently DH forgot that his marriage date was the 6th and had his lawyer write in the 5th. BM was NOT happy.
BFP #1 11/07/2012 EDD 07/09/2013 M/C 11/22/2012
BFP #2 02/05/2013 EDD 09/19/2013 Arrived via c-section 09/27/2013
LOL, this is so what I would have said to my ex if I did text him. Me and your BM could totally be friends.
For the record I think it bugged ex that I didn't mention it. He knew that me and BF stayed at a B&B last night because he dropped our son off there this morning. We were staying there for work reasons. Anyhow, when he dropped off our son he commented that he was glad his money was paying for me to have overnight vacations and my new car. Oh boy, someone is bitter...Maybe things with his little youngster plastic girlfriend aren't working out so nicely afterall.
Yes DH and I are in the military and I have heard her say things to SS about that on numerous occasions. I hate to stereotype but where my husband is from I have seen/heard that people have the mind frame of military = BIG $. She has told SS that if he wants anything "DH and SM are rich bc they are in the military" and to ask us for stuff.
BFP #1 11/07/2012 EDD 07/09/2013 M/C 11/22/2012
BFP #2 02/05/2013 EDD 09/19/2013 Arrived via c-section 09/27/2013
Yes she has mentioned to SS that DH and I have BMWs bc we are "show offs" and even asked SS to find out how much we pay for our vehicles. Oh and FTR DH worked hard for his car and as long as the bills are paid, his son is taken care of and we have money in savings idc what he does with whats leftover.
BFP #1 11/07/2012 EDD 07/09/2013 M/C 11/22/2012
BFP #2 02/05/2013 EDD 09/19/2013 Arrived via c-section 09/27/2013
BFP #1 11/07/2012 EDD 07/09/2013 M/C 11/22/2012
BFP #2 02/05/2013 EDD 09/19/2013 Arrived via c-section 09/27/2013
It was her way of reminding thats for sure.
BFP #1 11/07/2012 EDD 07/09/2013 M/C 11/22/2012
BFP #2 02/05/2013 EDD 09/19/2013 Arrived via c-section 09/27/2013
LOL.... Well, I am glad that you didn't text him!
Why do you call her plastic? I am sure I missed some of your older posts.
What a message, that's priceless! Jealous and insecure much?!
this is why they would get along so well
BFP #1 11/07/2012 EDD 07/09/2013 M/C 11/22/2012
BFP #2 02/05/2013 EDD 09/19/2013 Arrived via c-section 09/27/2013
That was NOT me. This is the second time someone has asked and last time other ppl mentioned who that was.
I've heard from a bunch of people that she had a nose and boob job. Which I guess really isn't a big deal but of course I like to point it out. I saw a picture of her on facebook with a tshirt on and they did look pretty fake. Same thing with her nose I saw an old pic of her where her nose looked a lot bigger.
Wow. I can't believe how crazy some people are!!
When my XH sent me flowers in an anniversary after we divorced, I refused then and had them sent to HIM. When he text me "happy anniversary" I responded with, "thank you for reminding me what I'm not missing". People need to grow up, let go and move on.
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Haha that is great!
Curly Q, I think you may have given me reason to smile for the rest of the day.
haha maybe thats how DH should have responded. FTR he didnt respond but that would have been the way to go.
BFP #1 11/07/2012 EDD 07/09/2013 M/C 11/22/2012
BFP #2 02/05/2013 EDD 09/19/2013 Arrived via c-section 09/27/2013
Yea I was thinking this too Wendi. Really KLASSY of her.
Jobalchak
You and I have too much in common!
My ex sent me a replica of my wedding bouquet the Valentine's after I filed for divorce from his cheating, lying self.
They were on my doorstep when I got home. I promptly drove them to the local children's hospital and asked the receptionist to take them to someone that they would make really happy. SOME good should've come from that mess!
You handled your "rememberance" flowers much better and far more mature than I did!! I had them sent back to him to make a point that I didn't want his trip down memory lane, and taking them to a hospital would have been a much better choice. I'll keep that in mind for next time
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