Good-bye — The Bump
Pregnant after a Loss


I won't waste your time with a long, drawn-out post. There was no longer a heartbeat today at our apt. This is our 3rd missed miscarriage, 5th one total. I should've been 9 weeks or 9w3d today depending on dating but baby stopped growing at 7 weeks 6 days. I'm stocked up on tylenol and ibruprofren and hoping to pass everything naturally. We will take the tissue in for testing and assume it will confirm the chromosomal translocation. We knew we had a high risk of loss but I was just starting to have hope...I'm holding on, because i have no other option. My heart is broken but I guess I'm used to it by now. I'm so thankful for our son in the midst of this.

Thanks for all your support the last few weeks. I hope more than anything that i can rejoin you someday. In the meantime I wish each of you a very happy and healthy 9 months. Best to you.

Loss #1 2008, Loss #2 2010, Loss #3 2011, Loss #4 2012, Loss #5 2012
Loss #6 2014 Loss #7 (chemical) 2014

~DS Born! 2009~
~DD Born! 2013~
~DD due! 2015~


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  • Oh, no.  I get so frustrated that some women have to bear so much loss, I really just don't get it.  Even if you are expecting the loss, it still effing sucks.  Take care, and I hope you get a sticky baby in the near future.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss. It is so unfair. T&P'S are with you
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  • So sorry for your loss.

    BFP 12/19/08- DS born 8/25/09 9lbs2oz via Zavanelli Maneuver
    BFP 8/26/11- Missed miscarriage discovered 10/19/11 at 11w2d, measured at 9 weeks gestation w/ no HB. D&C 10/21/11
    BFP 3/17/12 at 12dpo CP 3/21/12
    BFP 4/23/12 at 10dpo Stick my little one! Beta #1: 83.3 @ 13dpo Beta #2: 197.7 @ 15dpo
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  • It's not fair you have to go through this again. Please take care.

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    BFP #2: MC 7/2/11 @ 12 weeks
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    BFP #1: MMC discovered on 12/6/10



  • I am so sorry hun.  ((((HUGS)))) to you. 

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  • I am so so sorry to hear this. Praying things can happen naturally for you and you can begin the healing process. I feel thankful you have your son as well. ((BIG HUGS))

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  • I'm just so incredibly sorry.  Sending you many thoughts and prayers.  ((Hugs))
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    I am so very sorry... I truly hope you get your take home baby soon. 

    Missed m/c 3/1/12 - 10w 4d

    m/c 6/19/12 - 7w 4d


  • I am so so so sorry, it is so unfair.  

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  • Oh no! So sorry to read this! ((Big Hugs)) T & P to you and your DH
    Married since 06/2004, TTC since 01/2011

    BFP #1 and M/C 5/2011

    BFP #2 7/1/2011, Blighted ovums officially diagnosed at 9w6d, D&C 8/19/2011.

    BFP #3 12/7/2011, EDD 8/15/2012, Harper Lorelai born 8/09/12

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  • I am so very sorry for your loss. It just isn't fair to have to endure so many heartaches.  (((Hugs)))
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    BFP #3 - 2/2/2014 - EDD 10/16/2014
  • ((hugs)) I am so sorry to hear this, it is completely unfair. 
    11/2010 Diagnosed with PCOS 
    10/31/11 M/C at 9 weeks
    1/12/13 DD was born
    4/9/16 DS was born 
    9/17 CP 
    6/23/18 BFP EDD 3/4/19 

  • I am so very sorry. ((hugs))
    BFP#1 12/18/10 EDD 8/28/11 | 2/14/11 discovered that our baby girl had anencephaly D&C 2/17/11 at 12.5 weeks | no O or AF post loss - Dx: AO + mild PCOS = secondary infertility Provera after 70 days = AF but no O | Provera + 50mg Clomid after 110 days = AF but no O 3 rounds of 100mg Clomid + Estrogen + Progesterone = mixed O results, all BFN hysteroscopy 1/6/12 - removed fibroid tissue injection cycle #1 - 75 IU follistim + ovidrel (triggered 2/9/12) + endometrin = BFP! EDD 11/3/12 | Beta @ 13dpo = 184, 17dpo = 993, 26dpo = >5000 IT'S TWIN BOYS!! Tommy and Charlie arrived on 9/10/12 after less than 6 hours of labor at 32 weeks Image and video hosting by TinyPic Image and video hosting by TinyPic Image and video hosting by TinyPic Lilypie Premature Baby tickers
  • I am so sorry you are going through this again. *hugs* I hope you get the comfort and support you need right now.

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss, my heart is breaking for you.  Big ::HUGS::

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  • Oh Manderlin, I am so sorry. My heart goes out to you.

    BFP #1- 11/7/10 ~EDD 7/20/11 ~M/C (bo) 12/6/10 @ 8wks ~Missing my Little Firework

    BFP #2- 9/11/11 ~EDD 5/25/12 ~M/C (mmc10w)11/4/11 @ 11wks ~Missing my May Flower

    BFP #3- 02/21/12 ~EDD 11/1/12  Audrey Lee Born 11/4/2012

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  • I'm so very sorry for your loss.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss. I am currently waiting for loss #5 as well. We're going to do genetic testing this time.

    My son is the rock that holds me together amidst all of these losses. He is my sun and stars! :)

    Praying for a bright future for your family! GL to you!

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  • I'm so very sorry. No one deserves to go through this, especially not several times. I'll never understand it. Prayers to you during this time of healing.

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  • Oh no.  I am so so very sorry to hear this.  Big hugs.
    ds #1 | our perfect miracle born 39w1d | 12.9.2009 loss #1 | natural m/c 7/2010 (~8w) loss #2 | chemical pregnancy 6/2011 (4w4d) loss #3 | chemical pregnancy 7/2011 (4w3d) loss #4 | natural m/c 11/2011 (10w1d) RPL Testing 12/2011. Results 100% normal. ds #2 | our 2nd perfect miracle born 36w3d | 12.31.2012
  • I'm so sorry for your loss.
    DD Lea 04/21/10
    DS Nathan 12/4/12
    BFP: 3/31/15 EDD: 12/4/15

    MC: 7/2011, 12/2011
  • I'm so sorry to hear this. I know your son doesn't make up for the babies you've lost, but I hope he does give you some comfort in this difficult time.

    BFP1: DD1 born April 2011 at 34w1d via unplanned c/s due to HELLP, DVT 1 week PP
    BFP2: 3/18/12, blighted ovum, natural m/c @ 7w4d
    BFP3: DD2 born Feb 2013 at 38w4d via unplanned RCS due to uterine dehiscence

  • I am so sorry beyond words this has happened again. My thoughts and prayers are with you in this most difficult time.
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    Natural m/c 11/23/11

    BFP #3 2/17/12, m/c 5w1d, CP

    RLP, Sonohystogram, HSG, no sig. findings, only poss. endo

    BFP #4 5/20/12, EDD 01/28/2013, 3 wks on beta roller coaster, 7w1d u/s: irregular hb/1 wk behind on growth. 8w2d u/s: no hb, still measuring 6w1d. 3 rounds of cytotec.
    Natural m/c 6/27/2012.
    Proceeded to more testing with new RE in July 2012, which revealed endometritis. Treated with antibiotics and had biopsy to confirm it has been resolved. TTC again starting Jan. 2013.

  • I'm so sorry for your loss. ((hugs))
    BFP #1: 12/5/11, M/C 12/19/11
    BFP #2: 5/22/12 Due 2/1/13 Baby girl born 2/2/13
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    I am so so sorry. :(


    After 7 years of no ovulation...
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    BFP#2 2/3/12 ~ Alice born 9/26/12

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  • Lurking. . . . I'm sorry for your loss.
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    BFP#2 EDD 10/29/13, C/P 2/25/13, Bye little Ish, we barely got to know you.
    BFP#3 EDD 12/21/13, Baby Boots born 11/23/13 My rainbow baby!

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  • I'm so very sorry. It just isn't fair


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  • I am so so sorry.  ((Hugs))
    7/10 TTC ~ 12/10 DX PCOS ~ 1/11 CD 90 BFP ~ 3/10/11 MC 9w5d due to severe SCH ~ TTCAL 5/11 ~ 5/12 3rd cycle Clomid BFP TWINS!

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  • I'm so sorry. 
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  • Im so so sorry that you are going through this!  You are in my thoughts!

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    BFP 9/1/10-M/C confirmed 9/8/10-Methotrexate 10/6/10
    IUI #1 (w/clomid)-9/5/11-BFN ; IUI #2 (w/clomid)-10/5/11 - BFP - 11/1/12-No sac seen; 11/2/11 and 11/9/11-Methotrexate 
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    I am so sorry sweetie.  I hope you can get some answers and find some peace.  I am at a loss for words, but know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.  (((HUGS)))
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  • I'm so sorry.  ((hugs))

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    You've heard what I've done, not what I've been through.
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  • I am so very sorry to see this update. Wishing you a speedy physical recovery so you can begin to heal emotionally.
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    I'm so sorry.  Please take care.

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    BFP #2 9.12.12, EDD 5.24.13, Baby Boy Born 5.15.13!!
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  • Oh no!!!  My heart is breaking for you.  So not fair!!!  Lots of love, hugs and prayers for you and DH.


    1st pregnancy: BFP- 6/28/09 - Found out we lost our little girl on 10/9/09 at 19w 4d - D&E- 10/14/09

    June 2010, corrective surgery for Septate Uterus and large fibroids

    2nd pregnancy: BFP- 10/18/10 - Slow rising, non-doubling HCGs, no heart beat. Non-viable pregnancy, D&C- 11/12/10

    Started Metformin 6/30/11, Started Clomid 7/20/11 - Unsuccessful

    HSG and Laparoscopic surgery revealed blocked tubes and lots of scar tissue...IVF here we come!!!

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  • I'm so very sorry! ((hugs))
    1st BFP 07/11 -- d/c 08/18/11 at 11wks (we'll miss you forever!)

    2nd BFP 02/08/2012 - stick baby stick!


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  • I am so, so sorry
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  • Oh no. I'm so very sorry. This just isn't fair. ((hugs))
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    BFP #3 10/27/11 Please stick, LO!! 2/6/12 It's a Girl! Alexis Grace born 6/29/12
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  • I am so, so sorry to hear this. Big big (((HUGS))) to you.
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    Forever loved, little bug.

    Second BFP: 1/13/12. 2/13/12: Blighted Ovum diagnosis. Chromosomal testing showing complete tetraploidy. We'll miss you, little monkey and wish we could have known you. Two babies never to be in our arms, but always in our hearts.

    Third BFP: 5/4/12 EDD: 1/12/2013. Our rainbow baby, W, born 1/16/13 a healthy little boy!!! We love you honeybadger and are so so blessed to have brought you home!

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.

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