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Pregnancy Sex?

Okay, this may simply be TMI for some, but I could really use some help.  My DH went through the sahara during my last pregnancy - I was just really paranoid about something happening to the baby and then it was just awkward and long story short, the poor guy didn't get laid for like ten months (pregnancy + after birth healing).  I can't do that to him again - it wasn't good for him and wasn't good for our marriage.  But I'm having the same paranoia about something happening to the baby, so I'm just not really all hepped about the idea of sex.

 Am I being overly paranoid?  Thoughts?  Help!  The poor guy can't live like this!

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    sex during pregnancy is fine as long as the doc is ok with it.  Talk to your doc. Have him/her reassure you.  
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    Let me just be honest with you, Maybe this is TMI and I'm weird but DH and I had AWESOME sex last pregnacy. I could not get enough, LOL. It was a great time for our relationship and the sex was awesome for us both.   As long as you are not on pelvic rest you are good to go and I would suggest just trying it out because once you get used to the idea you will probably become more comfortable with the idea.

     

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    It's my first. I thought I'd be the same way, but I'm just not. It's actually hotter than ever before!!! My mind just doesn't go to that type of "we're hurting it" mindset. I have noticed that I have some slight cramping afterwards but everything I read said that is completely normal. I've never heard of a doctor saying it's a no-no. The only advice I do have is to get into it before it becomes a chore during the last trimester. That's what I'm doing now: making sure we can get through the last trimester and the 6 weeks post-delivery dry spell.
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     THIS!!!!! Pregnancy sex ROCKS!!! 

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    Let me just be honest with you, Maybe this is TMI and I'm weird but DH and I had AWESOME sex last pregnacy. I could not get enough, LOL. It was a great time for our relationship and the sex was awesome for us both.   As long as you are not on pelvic rest you are good to go and I would suggest just trying it out because once you get used to the idea you will probably become more comfortable with the idea.

     

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    I am 5 weeks 5 days. Still no sex so far since BFP. Ladies who said it is safe, is it so this early too?

     

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