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thank you notes & name...

If someone was referred to in the interview process as "you will be interviewing with Jane Smith" and they introduced themselves to you as Jane, when writing a thank you would you address it to Dear Jane or Dear Ms. Smith. I tend to err on the side of conservative and do Ms. Smith (for the record I wore a skirt suit with hose after all my polls  ;) but I will be doing pants for 2nd round) but I am curious...Thx!

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    aglennaglenn member
    In my industry, we pretty much all use first names with each other (including clients and outside vendors) so I would go with Dear Jane.  I think it would sound weird otherwise. 
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    Assuming you don't know this person other than from this interview, you should use Ms. Smith. 
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    Maybe I'm getting lazy in my old age, but I would just address them by first name.
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    Ms5586Ms5586 member
    Ms. Smith.  I always err on the professional side. 
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    Always go with the more conservative option if you are just being introduced to a company, or they explicitly state otherwise. I would go with Ms. Smith.
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    Thanks all...I did err on the side of caution & used last name! I figure people won't be offended by use of last name but technically could be by use of first name (even though I suspect most wouldn't, just to be safe).
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