So we go to DH's friends house last night. She is 37 with a 2 year old. DH told them I was pg before we got there and they guys hung out in the garage working on his truck where I stayed inside with her and the kids. At several points she said "are you sure you want to do this, having kids after 35 really sucks the life out of you". Each time I told her I was positive and it was just really disheartening how she kept saying it. She also point out that the age gap with my kids might be an issue for my girls (they are soon to be 13 & 9). I felt like I had to defend myself all day and our decision to have a child. UGH. Didn't help that my morning sickness and nausea was at an all time high yesterday...ugh. Sorry just had to vent.