So I know it is horribly tacky to make suggestions in your own shower, but is there a certain way to answer when the host asks you a specific question? Today my MIL asked what kind of cake I would like. I didn't know if she was making it or ordering it so I gave her two answers: white and marbled. I really am not sure how I could have answered it. I didn't want to sound snobbish asking if she was ordering it and I didn't want to sound like I was accusing her of being cheap by finding out if she was making it. I am pretty sure I am overthinking this, but I figured you ladies would know best.