I am currently pregnant with my second child, my first child is 8yr old and I never had a baby shower when I was pregnant with him. I was young and a lot of people didn't really know about the pregnancy til I was far along. Most family helped out by giving me hand me downs etc. I am not expecting a baby shower with this pregnancy but my sister offered that she would love to throw one since I never had one with the first and this would be my husbands first child. Would that be tacky? I am not sure what to tell my sister, I do not want to come off as gift grabby at all but if I were to have one it would be small with family and close friends only.