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  • I am so sorry to hear this nyc. Hugs




  • I'm really sorry, hang in there.  A divorce lawyer can be a great person to talk to even if you do decide to reconcile, just to know what your options are.  Good luck to you.
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  • HUGS to you. I'm sorry you have to go through this. 
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  • I'm so sorry nyc. I really hope that he hasn't been hiding something from you and that it's just related to his other issues. Big hugs to you. <3
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  • Oh NYC..I am so sorry. Please keep in touch.  I am going to miss you around here...also YGPM.


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  • I'm so sorry :(. Good luck to you! *hugs*
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  • I am so, so sorry. Its hard when you know you've put a lot of work into it and tried to make things work but they don't. Take care of yourself and maybe consider some counseling just for yourself to help you process all of this- because it is a LOT to take in. I wish you the best of luck moving forward and in the future.
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  • I'm so sorry to hear this. :(

    I do recommend counseling as a first step before anything as drastic as divorce, but of course you know your situation better than any of us and it is important that you do what is best for you. I hope things get better for you soon, no matter what you decide to do.

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  • I am so sorry you are going through this tough time. I hope that everything works out for you and you are in a happy place soon! Thoughts and prayers coming your way!
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    I'm so sorry nyc! That is such a horrible situation to be in.  Positive thoughts are definitely being sent your way.  I wish you all the best for your future.
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  • I am so sorry NYC!!  I am glad you won't be walked all over, but sad you have to go through this ((hugs))
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  • I'm so sorry.  You are very strong for making this decision.  I wish you peace and continued strength as you go forward.
  • so so sorry.  This is never an easy situation for anyone.  I hope that things begin to turn around for you soon, whether that be with or without him.  I understand the cheating thing, its a deal breaker for me too.  Wishing you nothing but the best... prayers going your way!
  • I'm so sorry you have to go through this. That is awful. I wish you the best.
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    BFP#1 5.23.12 C/P 4w4d 
    BFP #2 10.1.13
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  • I'm so, so sorry, NYC. ((hugs))
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    TTC #1 since November 2011
    Dx: Endometriosis, Stenosis of the Cervix, Uterine Polyp, Hostile CM and Borderline PCOS
    Stage 1 Endo and Uterine Polyp removed and Cervix widened on July 9, 2012.
    IUI #1 Clomid 50 mg - 3/6/13 BFN
    IUI #2 Clomid 50 mg - 4/3/13 BFN
    IUI #3 Clomid 50 mg - 10/4/13 BFN
    IUI #4 Clomid 100 mg + HCG trigger - 11/2/13 BFN
    Cycle #28 - Clomid 100 mg + HCG trigger + TI (IUI #5 cancelled) - 2/5/14 BFN
    IUI #5 Clomid 100 mg + HCG trigger - 3/5/14 BFN

  • NYC, I'm so so sorry you have to go through this.  I know I'm still new here and I don't know you well, but please feel free to message me if you want and I'll give you my email address.  (I've been in similar shoes with a divorce FWIW).  If not, best of luck to you and it will get better with time.
    Off BC since January 2012/TTC #1 since April 2012
    October 2013 IUI #1 - 5mg femara + Ovidrel = BFN
    November 2013 IUI #2 - 5mg femara + Gonal-F + Ovidrel + Crinone = 12/16/13 FIRST EVER BFP!!!  DD Blaire Noelle 8/26/14
    Surprise!  2 under 2 is happening!  Due 12/5/15 (updated)

  • nyc, I am so sorry you are going through such a difficult time. Try to remember that no matter how terrible things seem now, life goes on and things will get better for you. I hope that things get better soon and that you have some good friends and family nearby that can offer you support and love. ((((Big Hugs)))) We will miss  you!
  • Wow, I'm so sorry. I can't imagine what you're going through! Try to take care of yourself ((hugs)).
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  • i'm so sorry! this really is heartbreaking. best of luck to you.
  • I'm so sorry to hear this. But, good for you for standing up for yourself. That takes a strong, strong person.

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  • I am so sorry to hear this, my T&P's are with you through this difficult time.

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  • I'm so sorry for everything you're going through NYC! Have you tried to talk to him about it at all? I know you said he's avoiding you but I'd definitely want to know the facts before going through with a divorce. Maybe there is something more to it. I'm not trying to stick up for him, just playing devil's advocate. However, you know your life best of all and I know only you can make the decision that's best for you. Whatever the case may be, best of luck and I'm keeping you in my T&Ps.
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    I'm so sorry you are going through this. My thoughts are with you to make the best choice for you. Best of luck.
    TTC since 5/11
    Charting since 10/11
    MH-Low levels of testosterone,treatment since 1/11 
    04/12-Me-BW for TSH, prolactin level,P4 (5DPO)- I did O, yeah!
    5/12-Me-Annual OB - US shows all normal
    6/12-SA #1 & #2- low across the board, waiting on new insurance to see specialist in August 
    7/12-1/13- SA #3- DH off testosterone injections, numbers improve and back to normal 
    6/13-RE Appt-DX ~ Unexplained Infertility -All is good to start IUI, start clomid on 6/19/13..
    06/13-8/13- 3 failed IUI
    10/13-Laparoscopy-few small cyst and some endometriosis
    01/14-BW shows possible low ovarian reserve but not low enough to not proceed with IVF 
    04/14- Start meds for IVF- BC for few weeks,Lupron in AM,then Gonal and Menoour PM. Canceled cycle after second US, not responding enough to meds.
    6/14-Trying different protocol, Started supplements for both me and DH. Estrogen for 2 months, 2 rounds of progesterone, saline US to be done this month, will start stim meds in late July/ early August
  • I'm sorry to hear this, but it sounds like you are doing what you need to do. Good for you for making a brave and mature decision - I've seen women in the same position just stick around b/c they think it is all they have. I hope that things get better for you, and I'm sure that you'll find true happiness with a new partner and will be back here when the time is right. 
    Married since 2008 | TTC #1 since 2011

    2 losses: Nov '11 and Aug '12
    Dx: Feb '13 - HSG shows clear tubes but minor diverticulitis; Borderline DOR; Low DHEA and low testosterone.
    Moving on to IUI or IVF.

    3.4.13:  Holy crap! Surprise natural BFP on cycle #19. EDD 11.12.13
    We've got a peen.....it's a boy! 
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  • I'm so sorry NYC. I hope that you find peace soon and if you do go through with the divroce, I hope it ends quick. ((hugs))
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  • Thanks so much for all of your encouraging comments and T&Ps.  
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    NYC, I'm so so sorry you have to go through this.  I know I'm still new here and I don't know you well, but please feel free to message me if you want and I'll give you my email address.  (I've been in similar shoes with a divorce FWIW).  If not, best of luck to you and it will get better with time.

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  • this breaks my heart, so sorry to hear this!
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